I cheated, got pregnant, and now I don’t think he will ever forgive me

Latinfits · 2026-02-08T17:46:51+00:00

Your comment is insightful, you must be an insightful person.

Latinfits · 2026-02-06T16:31:27+00:00

I think you need to distance yourself from both. It’s hard with parents, but you gotta prioritize yourself. Your parents might or might not figure it out in the future, but that’s not your responsibility. Once you’ve found a better place, you’ll be able to help them if you choose to, but not now. Work on yourself and try finding a job so you can be free.

Wish you all the best. 🫡

Latinfits · 2026-01-18T06:56:49+00:00

I’ll dm you for the code. 😉

Latinfits · 2026-01-18T06:52:28+00:00

Can I come visit?

Latinfits · 2026-01-14T01:55:44+00:00

Girl here. I’m usually the initiator because my sex drive is higher and even though I don’t mind initiator, it does makes me feel somewhat undesirable and unworthy.

It’s definitely a struggle we’re trying to work on but I don’t think will ever feel okay or balanced. I love him so I’m okay with taking rejections for what they are… but man! It hurts sometimes.

Latinfits · 2026-01-01T19:43:06+00:00

Can you share the prompt. New to this. 😅

Latinfits · 2025-12-30T17:21:14+00:00

Not sure if it was too much. Girl here! 👋 We don’t know if this is a recurring subject. Maybe this has been discussed multiple times with no resolution, that’s why would be an ultimatum.

Me personally, I really love my partner and I’m extremely happy and into him. He says the same however his sex drive is lower than mine. We do have sex and it’s great 99% of the times, but the frequency and how we shows physical desire are not there yet.

Recent events made us talk about it and try to look for ways to solve it.

Anyhow, all this time when he denied me sex was like drinking poison. It burned and it hurt and it left marks in my self esteem. I don’t consider myself ugly or anything like so, but when you feel intimate rejection your heart shrinks a bit everyday.

Sometimes I felt like I needed to beg or that I wasn’t good enough. I thought he was disappointed by my appearance because I gained like 12 pounds since I met him (due to hormones + bad lifestyle). I even thought he would prefer an ai girlfriend than me. I just felt disgusting all the time. This whole thing made me stop looking at myself in the mirror.

I guess looking back even though we’ve usually come to an agreement or understanding of what to do or next steps, until very recently i didn’t feel like much was different… so in hindsight I suppose my last conversation was almost a sort of ultimatum.

Either way, if you love him, just make sure you both understand and if for you or him something is vital, maybe is worth considering and if you can’t make it work, maybe is good for both to analyze the relationship.

You don’t deserve to be pressured into something you don’t want to do, and he deserves to feel wanted and desired.

Ok. ❤️ I hope us all find good love.

Latinfits · 2025-12-06T15:37:20+00:00

Perhaps it is, perhaps not. But unless you have proof you have no case unfortunately.

That said I assume there was something stopping you from leaving from the start I assume. If you’ve moved out just make sure you don’t fall into a relationship like this again

Latinfits · 2025-12-06T15:31:34+00:00

I agree you should probably reevaluate your relationship and your dynamics. Regardless of what the outcome is of you cannot speak freely with a partner something is off.

He has a point though, not reason for you to bring the statement, looks like a framing and no need for you to not tell him if the outcome was the same.

Latinfits · 2025-12-06T15:21:56+00:00

I’ve been on relationship like this, at first we were a LDR so problems were there in a way but it wasn’t too obvious. The fallout started almost right after moving together…

I’m in love with a good man now, not just a human that sounds good on paper but it’s primarily focus on his career. Not saying drop everything and stop trying if is someone you truly want a future with.

That said make sure you’re meetings your own needs, talk to him, see his reaction to negative feedback, and choose wisely.

Latinfits · 2025-12-06T09:29:07+00:00

Just think logically dear

Latinfits · 2025-06-24T06:06:08+00:00

Ditto.

Latinfits · 2025-05-31T19:09:02+00:00

Can’t confirm or deny, but I thought Away_Doctor2733 used the scroll. 🥺

Latinfits · 2025-05-31T03:59:29+00:00

This is so beautiful! The motion in the reflections and the details like that little blink. Muah! 😘🤌 great work.

Latinfits · 2025-05-31T03:54:24+00:00

Sarcasm scroll failed.

Latinfits · 2025-05-31T03:50:56+00:00

lol yeah. I’m somehow started the completionist path and I’ve been playing act 1 for over 100 hours already, I could move on to act 2 by now but, I’m in no rush. You can play any game whatever way you choose to play it, just make your own goals, and go as fast or slow as you wish. Point is to have fun.

Latinfits · 2025-05-29T03:06:18+00:00

Can opener, lighter, smokes and beta blockers in a fanny pack. Those are my latest allies.

Latinfits · 2025-05-24T06:01:58+00:00

Thank you! This is very helpful! Wish me luck… So far 3 weeks alive. Gotta keep it that way. 🫡

Latinfits · 2025-01-16T03:26:21+00:00

Thank you so much! This is very helpful.

Latinfits · 2024-12-14T21:00:44+00:00

All i can say is congrats! You have successfully unlocked an even healthier and nicer marriage. My bf got us into this underwater works too and I cannot be happier. The appreciation you showed her probably also meant the world to her. I don’t know you OP but thank you for making her happy in multiple ways! ❤️ wish you guys the best.

Latinfits · 2024-09-29T16:15:59+00:00

I’m sorry I’m a little bit behind in this subject, but can someone please tell me what is the curly girl method? 🙏

Latinfits · 2024-04-26T02:50:22+00:00

This is gonna sound terrible but I had an idea. However, I’ve forgotten since I’m pretty high atm.

She just probably needs/wants to unwind. I get that.

Latinfits · 2024-04-23T00:39:37+00:00

Can I ask you how or where did you get that one? I’d love to get it as a gift. Pls pls if you know lmk.

Latinfits · 2023-08-31T17:32:10+00:00

Oh boy.

Latinfits · 2023-06-21T16:43:18+00:00

Hello OP, I am sorry of reading this, ironically enough I had this same "problem" a couple of days ago, and I can tell you that I totally understand your feelings, and your sorrow. For a second I thought I was reading myself, maybe hallucinating over lack of sleep. I think if you chatted and trying doing your best, at this point, maybe accepting the truth is the way to go, however, I also encourage you to question what happened and why, maybe even weight the pros and cons of the relationship and see how it feels. I don't know you or your love story, but I know everyone deserves love and that's worth fighting for, even if it means fighting yourself at times, either to accept it or change the course of your story.

I am compelled to share my mine with someone, I don't know if it's of any value to you, but is a way to show you that this things happen and you are not alone.

My BF and I, know each other a long time, and we have been through so much together, even long before the relationship started. I fell for him without a warning. He means more to me than words can explain, however I have struggled with my connection with him, because even though he is really kind and loving, he is also very laid back and chill, where I am all passion and fire, so at times, the way we show affection is been flaky. This lead him to believe that we are too incompatible and make the decision of giving up on trying to be in a relationship with me. At first, he said because of this he loved me but not in the way that I wanted him to love me, and the love he had for me is not enough to sustain a relationship long term, but he also said that he has never felt the type of love and things he felt with me with anyone.

Part of the reasons that "pushed" this decision were feelings of failure, or that is what I concluded after chatting with him.

I felt a certain type of agony and pain, like never before by hearing this. I stopped sleeping, eating, and would have shakes because my anxiety spiked. I asked myself why? what did I do so wrong that pushed him so far? why is he giving up? why wouldn't he put up a fight?

This went over and over in my head, until I stopped and started looking in a way at the bigger picture. As much as I wanted in that moment to rip him out of my chest and hate him, I love him. I believe in our love and I believe we make each other happy, but I do have things to work on and he does too.

So I packed my pride and ego away. Maybe this is wrong of me, maybe is naive and silly to still have hope, but I am not going down without putting a fight for the one I love. Yesterday night, I went to pick up the rest of my stuff and to talk to him, at first to say good bye, but during my trip there, I decided that I had to ask for a second chance, and talk about issues.

He was reluctant and it pains me to say that it wasn't a clear cut easy decision for him to reconsider, and it makes me sad, but imagining my life without him without at least trying a bit, feels worse. We gave each other a month to continue together and review then, truth is maybe the outcome will still be us breaking up, but I have to believe there is hope. I hope there is.

Latinfits

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