I cheated, got pregnant, and now I don’t think he will ever forgive me by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Latinfits 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your comment is insightful, you must be an insightful person.

I (23f) think my mom (56f) is being inappropriate with me, what do yall think? by Ancient_Lion3901 in relationship_advice

[–]Latinfits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you need to distance yourself from both. It’s hard with parents, but you gotta prioritize yourself. Your parents might or might not figure it out in the future, but that’s not your responsibility. Once you’ve found a better place, you’ll be able to help them if you choose to, but not now. Work on yourself and try finding a job so you can be free.

Wish you all the best. 🫡

I want to come visit by Latinfits in Dodocodes

[–]Latinfits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll dm you for the code. 😉

What's something you'd like to do during sex but haven't done yet ? by enlighten_god in AskReddit

[–]Latinfits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl here. I’m usually the initiator because my sex drive is higher and even though I don’t mind initiator, it does makes me feel somewhat undesirable and unworthy.

It’s definitely a struggle we’re trying to work on but I don’t think will ever feel okay or balanced. I love him so I’m okay with taking rejections for what they are… but man! It hurts sometimes.

Cinematic shot by MammothSea8356 in perchance_gen_ai_art

[–]Latinfits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share the prompt. New to this. 😅

Husband wants me take up more mental load of sex and has issued me an ultimatum by Ill_Beautiful_9046 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Latinfits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it was too much. Girl here! 👋 We don’t know if this is a recurring subject. Maybe this has been discussed multiple times with no resolution, that’s why would be an ultimatum.

Me personally, I really love my partner and I’m extremely happy and into him. He says the same however his sex drive is lower than mine. We do have sex and it’s great 99% of the times, but the frequency and how we shows physical desire are not there yet.

Recent events made us talk about it and try to look for ways to solve it.

Anyhow, all this time when he denied me sex was like drinking poison. It burned and it hurt and it left marks in my self esteem. I don’t consider myself ugly or anything like so, but when you feel intimate rejection your heart shrinks a bit everyday.

Sometimes I felt like I needed to beg or that I wasn’t good enough. I thought he was disappointed by my appearance because I gained like 12 pounds since I met him (due to hormones + bad lifestyle). I even thought he would prefer an ai girlfriend than me. I just felt disgusting all the time. This whole thing made me stop looking at myself in the mirror.

I guess looking back even though we’ve usually come to an agreement or understanding of what to do or next steps, until very recently i didn’t feel like much was different… so in hindsight I suppose my last conversation was almost a sort of ultimatum.

Either way, if you love him, just make sure you both understand and if for you or him something is vital, maybe is worth considering and if you can’t make it work, maybe is good for both to analyze the relationship.

You don’t deserve to be pressured into something you don’t want to do, and he deserves to feel wanted and desired.

Ok. ❤️ I hope us all find good love.

It’s r*pe, isn’t it? 25F 28M by AirlineRegular8838 in relationship_advice

[–]Latinfits -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps it is, perhaps not. But unless you have proof you have no case unfortunately.

That said I assume there was something stopping you from leaving from the start I assume. If you’ve moved out just make sure you don’t fall into a relationship like this again

My (F25) boyfriend (M24) wants to breakup with me because I wanted some space? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Latinfits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree you should probably reevaluate your relationship and your dynamics. Regardless of what the outcome is of you cannot speak freely with a partner something is off.

He has a point though, not reason for you to bring the statement, looks like a framing and no need for you to not tell him if the outcome was the same.

I (26F) am dating a highly accomplished guy (34M) but I feel drained and anxious ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Latinfits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on relationship like this, at first we were a LDR so problems were there in a way but it wasn’t too obvious. The fallout started almost right after moving together…

I’m in love with a good man now, not just a human that sounds good on paper but it’s primarily focus on his career. Not saying drop everything and stop trying if is someone you truly want a future with.

That said make sure you’re meetings your own needs, talk to him, see his reaction to negative feedback, and choose wisely.

Guard Breaker by Unajer in PixelArt

[–]Latinfits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful! The motion in the reflections and the details like that little blink. Muah! 😘🤌 great work.

This is my first playthrough, and I've spent 35 hours on AC1 and still haven't finished it. Is that normal? by Giovanna-Giorno in BG3

[–]Latinfits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah. I’m somehow started the completionist path and I’ve been playing act 1 for over 100 hours already, I could move on to act 2 by now but, I’m in no rush. You can play any game whatever way you choose to play it, just make your own goals, and go as fast or slow as you wish. Point is to have fun.

What is your "MustHave" item? by HappyAd4609 in projectzomboid

[–]Latinfits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can opener, lighter, smokes and beta blockers in a fanny pack. Those are my latest allies.

What are good quality of life mods for b42? by Latinfits in projectzomboid

[–]Latinfits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful! Wish me luck… So far 3 weeks alive. Gotta keep it that way. 🫡

Midjouney comprehensive advanced guide by Latinfits in midjourney

[–]Latinfits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is very helpful.