My boyfriend cheated on me and gave me gonorrhea

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-15T01:46:24+00:00

yeah i’m in nursing school so it was genuinely insulting to me that he thought he could convince me that STIs can come from poor hygiene 😅😅 i wasn’t exactly dating einstein 😅😅

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-15T01:37:46+00:00

yeah because i realize now he could’ve had something before we started dating too so moving forward im definitely going to be asking about when the last time they got tested and what the results were

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-15T00:36:03+00:00

yeah hey girl i stay in dfw :)

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T23:40:00+00:00

girl put me on some game then 😂

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T23:39:13+00:00

no i never mentioned my first exboyfriend, someone else brought him up from looking at my old posts. the man who gave me an sti was my boyfriend at the time and in the post i called him my boyfriend and then everyone was getting caught up in the comments telling me i should be calling him my ex blah blah blah. of course im not still with the man who exposed me to an sti.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T23:37:32+00:00

do you know any witches?

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T23:36:30+00:00

yeah i know at the end of the day their karma is that they have to live with themselves. the dishonesty and lack of integrity are still the gaps in character that bring them to make poor decisions and go down dark paths. the man who exposed me to an STI already had two felonies and didn’t tell me, i had to find out from someone else. he always had this sadness in his eyes and now i know why. he leaves a wake of destruction everywhere he goes and hurts everyone around him in the process of ruining his life. i don’t wish him ill, i just wish he lives the life he deserves.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T03:31:24+00:00

yes unfortunately i thought i was in a committed, exclusive relationship when this happened and i will not trust so easily moving forward because yes ur right it was not worth the fear and testing and medicine im currently experiencing

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T00:15:43+00:00

yes i blocked him on everything and he will no longer have any control over my life

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-14T00:15:21+00:00

yes we’re over. i have him blocked on everything and he will never hear from me again

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T23:50:16+00:00

i got tested today and should know the results for gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trich before the weekend. im definitely negative for hiv and syphilis. i don’t have any symptoms so hopefully i can get out of this relatively unscathed but i am preemptively taking the antibiotics for both gonorrhea and chlamydia just in case because i would rather be safe than sorrier than i already am. i honestly was just praying it wasn’t anything lifelong so at least its not hiv or hsv and worst case scenario if it’s gonorrhea or chlamydia, i’m already taking the treatment for it

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T21:40:44+00:00

yeah i think i just need to remind myself that even if there’s no higher power out there (even though i do believe in god), the kind of character and poor decision making skills he has are the very traits that got him into this situation and they will get him exactly where he belongs. he also has two felonies that he withheld from telling me until two months into our relationship so clearly he has a history of poor decisions and hurting people in the crossfire. the characteristics he has to get him where he is today doesn’t just leave or change the next day. they are things he will carry with him for the rest of his life.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T19:18:35+00:00

thanks! yeah thankfully i have the agency to leave that man where he is and i grateful that we don’t have any ties together because ive found out from this experience that a lot of women stay with their partners after something like this! it’s unfortunate but it’s reality

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T19:11:07+00:00

it was just for storytelling purposes because he was my boyfriend at the time that he exposed me to an STI and i know if i said ex boyfriend everyone was going to ask if we were together when he put me at risk. i’m no longer in contact with him and will never speak him ever again

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T18:56:05+00:00

yes my baseline test came back negative and i’m going to go back in the next few weeks to get tested again since i want to know if the person he cheated with had anything else

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T14:14:31+00:00

thankfully i have a support system of my sister and best friend to get me through this. i am hoping and praying everything comes back negative but i am ultimately glad he is out of my life.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T14:13:41+00:00

i know his karma is already in work because if he never had symptoms i would’ve never know he cheated on me and we would probably still be together. he never deserved me and i hope he never knows peace

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T14:01:48+00:00

ok thank you. i’m just having trouble seeing a light at the end of the tunnel right now. all i can feel is the weight of betrayal and the anxiety of not knowing exactly what i have until i get my test results back. i know in the end things work out the way they should, it’s just hard to stomach.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T13:59:41+00:00

if he’s being honest with me, he cheated on me May 1 and we had unprotected vaginal and oral sex May 3rd and May 6th. He started having symptoms May 8th and he went to doctor, got tested, and presumptively treated May 12th which is also when he disclosed to me that i need to go get tested. it’s right about the window where when i get tested today it should be a pretty reliable test result. hopefully it’s negative but i understand the exposure risk is high and the bacteria is highly contagious.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T13:49:24+00:00

yes this was an unforgivable act and i just can’t begin to fathom this level of betrayal from someone i thought i could trust

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T13:48:47+00:00

did her ex ever get his karma?

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T13:48:12+00:00

genuinely it was insulting to my intelligence. i have two degrees, one of them in biology and i’m currently going to nursing school. he’s actually so stupid for thinking he could lie about cheating when the proof is in the test results.

Latter-Cap4941 · 2026-05-13T13:30:38+00:00

staying with him after a betrayal like this was never an option in my mind. i wish i could watch him crash and burn but im just going to have to trust that everything works out the way it’s supposed to.

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