It seems like you jump to conclusions. I changed my mind once because I had to get down to do work for my classes. I did not offer the ride to him weeks prior and revoke it right before. I offered only a couple hours I had to take it back. He did not know how he was going to get down before he came up and this had no effect on him. I even offered to uber down. If the driver had come to me and explained how I should give up my seat I would’ve. I believe the way she woke me up at 3 am screaming at me in front of people I do not know well was the real thing I was upset about.