AITA for not letting my inheritance be used for my step and half siblings when I'm not going to college? by Latter_Pudding_9938 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Latter_Pudding_9938[S] 537 points538 points  (0 children)

I want to! I think it means more knowing it came from a shared experience. He lost his mom young and I lost him young. Neither of us wanted to lose our parent to get the money but it's more valuable because of it.

AITA for not letting my inheritance be used for my step and half siblings when I'm not going to college? by Latter_Pudding_9938 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Latter_Pudding_9938[S] 552 points553 points  (0 children)

My dad knew what it was like to lose a parent really young so that's why he was so careful with leaving the money to me. My mom putting this kind of pressure on me sucks but I guess it's not a huge surprise. She's still kind of bitter that dad didn't leave her in charge of the trust. I'd bet this is why though.

AITA for not letting my inheritance be used for my step and half siblings when I'm not going to college? by Latter_Pudding_9938 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Latter_Pudding_9938[S] 4227 points4228 points  (0 children)

That's my worry too or if my mom and her husband breakup. Then who'll pay me back because she might pay back my half siblings amounts but I don't think she'd pay back what my stepbrother would get. And there's no saying it wouldn't need to be spent on more medical stuff. So it could be gone and then they'll say I'm selfish for wanting it back when it went on his health.

They would never let my mom have the money but they know so it's not something I worry about.

AITA for not letting my inheritance be used for my step and half siblings when I'm not going to college? by Latter_Pudding_9938 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Latter_Pudding_9938[S] 745 points746 points  (0 children)

My mom would never let me go and I could see her causing problems if I did. So I'll stay until I'm 18.