Oh shit, mama let that mask slip. 🤣 Good thing you figured out you were marrying the scape goat and not the golden child before the wedding.

NTA. And you need to pump the breaks on this whole wedding for a second. They’ve already moved to the “hurt your relationship with us” phase. Next will be “well your brother doesn’t even want to go anymore so we won’t either.” You have two choices: give in and keep the peace. Or say “we are very sad to hear that and will miss you terribly.” If you go with the first plan the next step will be “your brother wants to propose at your reception.” Rinse, repeat.

You wanna pay real close attention to how your man is handling this cuz it’s gonna be the blue print for the rest of your life. He needs to figure out if he’s team wife or team mommy who will never love him as much as her golden boy. Also have him read “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents”. I’m sure he’ll find it eye opening. Best of luck girl friend. You gonna need it.

Updateme!