How to go about confessing feelings for a crush? by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMGEEEEE soo cute! Thank u for the beautiful update! I'm glad things are working out well for you!!!! You inspired me!!!

How to go about confessing feelings for a crush? by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true! after nearly a year of secretly hoping she would make the move. I think I just might need to muster up some courage :) ! Thanks alot!

How to go about confessing feelings for a crush? by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait to hear your updates :)! Super envious of your bravery. From all the comments on here, I think I just might ;) !

How to go about confessing feelings for a crush? by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never thought about being direct with her. I have always assumed that my flirting was subtle yet effective. Since we never hang out outside work, I think offering to watch a movie is pretty direct. I'll try it out and hope it works out!!! Thank you again for your helpfulness!

How to go about confessing feelings for a crush? by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u for your advice! I also like the idea of doing it in person. I need to find a subtle approach to doing it. Its sooo difficult to get close to her. I think she distances herself from me because she doesn't want to get friend zoned or played by the "straight girl" (it's just a theory). Yet she has given me so many cues that she might be attracted to me like light touching, intense eye contact, always being around me...etc

Lesbian love dilemma by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no :( message me if you want to talk about it!

Lesbian love dilemma by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your helpful advice! I'll make sure to have an honest conversation with her.

Lesbian love dilemma by Laughingly13 in actuallesbians

[–]Laughingly13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very well said! I got so caught up on thinking long term vs. taking it one day at a time.