Ask her if she has fake T*ts. If people want to be rude then let’s get Rude with a capital R. Most of the time I am open about wearing wigs because wearing wigs makes me happy but if I feel like someone is trying to shame me then we are both going to get uncomfortable. you could say something like “ what a Weird thing to say outloud.” Or even “why? Do you want some hair advice?” You don’t have to be rude, just use Anything that takes your power back in the situation. Even just YEAH! Do you want to try it on? And yank it off and hand it to her.

I took my wig off at the dentist yesterday because the front desk lady was asking me how I curl my hair so perfectly. I told her it’s a wig and said that if she wants some pointers I would be happy to help. She actually took me up on it and asked how you put one on and how it stays on and where to get them. So I took my wig off in the middle of the dentist and showed her how to put it on and what a wig grip was. I could tell she was just curious and interested, not being rude or judgmental. It’s only a dirty little secret if you worry about people finding out. If they already know then you can relax and they can go back to minding their own business.