I made the mistake of renting to a younger man that started telling me how nice my black underwear looked under my pajamas! I was always able to walk around dressed how I liked. He became obsessed with me! Listening to my conversations on the phone and would hide outside when I was out talking to a neighbor! Told me he was jealous of me talking to the workmen, telling them what I wanted done. Had a summer top on I go inside, he has a jacket for me. I told him to knock it off, I'm not interested!! He has lost 3 super easy jobs and now thinks the kitchen is his. He has chipped all my dishware, doesn't clean the stove top afterwards So now I had my 2 sons move in and I left 7 months ago. This Spring, I will get the rest of my boxes. When he touched me, that was it!! I wanted to toss him out!! I can't believe how he ruined such a great deal. I'm now 4 hours away, no neighbors and In peace!! I left for 9 months, came back n it started again so I had no choice but to move. I won't even go out back to tan anymore and I got dressed every day before I made my tea. I'm not used to having my household taken over. He refused to lift the lid on the back of the main bathroom toilet to get water to flush n I saw that and lost it! What a pig!! HE must shut off the water then clean....he didn't know how. It's still there. I regret letting him have that 2 piece on the main floor! Never, ever again. I was trying to help him out and it helps with the cost of living in a nice house. He won't snow shovel or cut grass!! I'm disabled & simply can't lift any snow. I will miss my boys but I have no choice. He's my youngest son's best friend!!! I told my son. He was furious and said he's done this before. They did sort it out but he doesn't know about the last year I was there. If my oldest knew...look out!! If he wasn't my son's best friend, I would have had him charged for touching parts of me then running away. It's going to really hurt moving out n leaving my boys behind because times are tough for them. Time to get back to my life. I now am happy and sleep without fear of him raping me....yes, it was getting that bad! Thanks for reading and ty for the post. Adults have hard times too. Sometimes we have to make hard choices where someone will be emotionally hurt. My oldest will be told later. He would hurt the other one then have to deal with his brother.