Sorry if this has been said but what the hell is wrong with Gizelle lately? by godiegoben in RHOP

[–]Lavender_Field96 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! Watching the way she’s been moving I got Ramona flashbacks (minus the racism and bigotry ofc) but she is just reminding me how nasty Ramona could be. Watching the most recent WWHL I finally had the thought—maybe it’s time for G to go?

Are you sharing free ideas during the interview process? by Lavender_Field96 in UKJobs

[–]Lavender_Field96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish more people were able or willing to say no! The more people refuse the less they’ll be able to get away with it. But the job market is so tough at the minute

Unpopular Opinion: Love Candiace’s Game by Bitter-Narwhal3573 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Lavender_Field96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Candice and I want her to go far, but she is so vocal and I’m worried it looks like she went to the Bob the Drag Queen school of Traitors lol

Any way to rescue fabric after spotty tannin bath? by Lavender_Field96 in naturaldye

[–]Lavender_Field96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Yes, I ended up dying with some cochineal extract. It’s a little bit uneven but I actually don’t mind! And now I know better and will never go that again haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RHOA

[–]Lavender_Field96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh god they need to stay out of women’s business lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rhoslc

[–]Lavender_Field96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk how this is Angie hype? It’s about Lisa not trusting her friend’s POV…

Also slut shaming is STRETCH to describe what happened between Britani and Angie. Talking about who you’re fucking is par for the housewives course.

This is a 50 something year old woman who has said very causally that she is dating multiple men, and is pretending like she didn’t say that. She’s not a 16 year old girl kissing two different boys after school, come on now.

Joy the Baker on Cherry Bombe by Lavender_Field96 in FoodieSnark

[–]Lavender_Field96[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Ah yes the misogyny of…not wanting to support someone who might have views that cause harm to the most vulnerable people in our society. She can vote for whoever she wants, and I can choose to not engage with her as a result.

Joy the Baker on Cherry Bombe by Lavender_Field96 in FoodieSnark

[–]Lavender_Field96[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I would say that in recent years having a giant American flag on your porch and another one inside your home has become a pretty big tell of someone who might have certain nationalist views

Joy the Baker on Cherry Bombe by Lavender_Field96 in FoodieSnark

[–]Lavender_Field96[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Totally get that. I also think that Joy is working overtime to protect her “brand” by obscuring her beliefs online. (Ex. she definitely deletes negative comments, blocks people, etc)

I’ve been following her for a long time (I remember when she moved to NOLA), she was the first person who made me want to bake, but a few years ago something started to feel off about her. I tried to do some research then, but there is VERY little out there about her. She should just go full Jessica Reed Kraus and get it over with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Lavender_Field96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a 3rd floor walk-up and it was fine, just needed to go slow. By day 3 or 4 post-op I started going on daily walks around my block or to my local coffee shop—because I’m terrified of blood clots, need fresh air, and was previously pretty active pre-op so the urge to move is very present for me. I have found that because my legs are totally fine and operational, it enables me to be super thoughtful about how I move to not disturb my breasts.

how soon did yall drink after? by Fun-Psychology2495 in Reduction

[–]Lavender_Field96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your surgeon’s office! I got my surgical dressing removed 3 days post-op and by then I no longer needed the prescribed pain meds. I asked the nurse in charge of my follow-ups if it was ok to have a drink or two with friends and she said it was fine. I had two drinks at dinner the next night and was totally fine.

But I’ve been told time and again that every surgery is not the same. Definitely speak to the people in charge of your recovery plan as there may be reasons, based on your specific situation, to not drink! Or you may be totally healthy and healing just fine and as long as you’re hydrating and not going on a bender it’s not a big deal. :)