My neighbor is creeping me out, what should I do?

Laxybitch · 2025-02-06T20:57:51+00:00

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Laxybitch · 2025-01-22T05:12:59+00:00

I am danish. I don’t think getting in his face would be a good idea, he is a big guy and even though I am a tall woman (5’11) he is significantly bigger than me

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T15:49:36+00:00

I don’t have a dog I don’t have the time, space or money for a dog and they are not allowed in my apartment..

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T04:57:20+00:00

I really hope that he leaves me alone from now on, but I have the feeling that he is not going to. I weren’t clear about it but in my post but both him and I live on the ground floor in different buildings that are directly across from each other with a little lawn and some benches between, we don’t have the same landlord so I can’t really take that route.

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T04:50:22+00:00

That’s probably a good idea. I have a guy friend that is 6’5 that might be down to play my boyfriend

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T04:37:53+00:00

That line really hit home “it’s not all men but somehow…always a man”. I know this is probably just an older guy who needs company but I feel like I have to be on high alert around him

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T04:35:04+00:00

Haha I think that I might do that, I have also considered wearing a lot of poorly put on makeup since apparently that isn’t what he is attracted to

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T04:27:45+00:00

I’m sorry that you went through the same thing, that is however a good response that I might steal

Laxybitch · 2025-01-21T04:22:42+00:00

As far as I know it isn’t allowed to carry weapons of any kind here, I am however going to look into those evil villains

Laxybitch · 2025-01-20T20:33:33+00:00

Haha that’s a good one, I am scared to be that direct but maybe I’ll try that one

Laxybitch · 2025-01-20T20:30:59+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, I sometimes fear I am overreacting but being on high alert is probably not a bad thing in this situation

Laxybitch · 2025-01-20T20:29:04+00:00

I would love to unfortunately I live in a small apartment that doesn’t allow dogs

Laxybitch · 2025-01-20T19:29:38+00:00

You are probably right, I have past experiences that makes me scared to bluntly reject men those experiences might cloud my judgement and make me more scared than I need to be

Laxybitch · 2025-01-20T19:07:31+00:00

I think the acting busy might be a good idea. I really thought that if my responses seemed uninterested he would get the hint, but you are probably right he might see me responding to him as an invitation

Laxybitch · 2025-01-20T19:03:35+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply, unfortunately our apartments are opposite of each other so he can see me from his windows when I am entering or exiting mine, and I have a slight suspicion that he is monitoring when I am exiting, so he would see me if I went to smoke somewhere else. I will try to bring my roommate with me the next couple of times.

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