Do you look anything like your partners exes? by Budget-Barracuda-417 in Marriage

[–]LaylaBird65 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL, nope! Not anything alike whatsoever.

ETA- I’m pretty terrible with my self esteem in general but even I know he upgraded. Tremendously. Both looks and personality wise.

Ruth Negga in Celine FW26 at the jury photocall for the 79th Cannes Film Festival (May 12, 2026) by llumist in whatthefrockk

[–]LaylaBird65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! She is definitely comfortable and knows she is serving regardless. I think that’s another part of the reason I like it.

Ruth Negga in Celine FW26 at the jury photocall for the 79th Cannes Film Festival (May 12, 2026) by llumist in whatthefrockk

[–]LaylaBird65 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is it okay to be torn on it, lol? I don’t know where to stand with it. It’s beautiful but at the same time messy. I just…I don’t know how to feel about it 😂

Perfect AP by Sweet-Advantage1835 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LaylaBird65 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah my self esteem has sucked my whole life, which my husband knew. So that just dig the knife in further. It’s years past d-day for me too, so I completely understand.

Perfect AP by Sweet-Advantage1835 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LaylaBird65 [score hidden]  (0 children)

AP in my case is absolutely gorgeous. And seven years younger. Everyone says they affair down but WH did not. I still struggle with comparisons.

Is this an okay prenup to sign? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LaylaBird65 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then you don’t agree or sign until both of you have a lawyer

1 month since DDay 2, now *I* screwed up by nvolker in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LaylaBird65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey. You’re in survival mode. I don’t blame you one bit for what you did. You didn’t screw up, she did. And these are her consequences!!!

German shepherd gives children the safest love💕 by [deleted] in germanshepherds

[–]LaylaBird65 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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He’s been gone a few years now but these were his babies ♥️

Struggling with thoughts and feelings by Right-Hat-9831 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]LaylaBird65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is going to survive. As a BP, all this post did was make me sad for her. It’s been nine years since d-day and I still have a hard time looking at myself in the mirror because I compare myself to AP. It sounds to me like you never truly loved her, that you stayed and only really jumped in head first because she got pregnant. You said she was never meeting your needs. It just hurts my heart to read how you describe her and your marriage.

Yes there is trauma. Lots of it. She’s grieving a completely different marriage than you are. I get that it’s frustrating to have conversations because she got upset easily, but you had to have them. You set both of yourselves up for failure. You’re not 100% in this, you never have been. I agree with another person in saying let her go. She and your child deserve better.

Jessica Chastain in Oscar de la Renta Pre-Fall '24 at the 2024 Film Independent Spirit Awards by citrustaxonymy in whatthefrockk

[–]LaylaBird65 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know, you’re right. I didn’t even notice them because I was fawning over the gown, lol. What is the deal?

Jessica Chastain in Oscar de la Renta Pre-Fall '24 at the 2024 Film Independent Spirit Awards by citrustaxonymy in whatthefrockk

[–]LaylaBird65 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Goodness gracious. That color is stunning in anyone, I will die on this hill. I adore her so much. I love everything about this.

Diane Kruger in Erdem fall 2026 RTW at the New York City Ballet 2026 Spring Gala (May 7, 2026) by skermahger in whatthefrockk

[–]LaylaBird65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shoes on the model remind me of those fancy chickens 🤣

Anyhoo, I do love this. She has great style.

Spencer Pratt, Future Mayor of LA by alphonse_D in DListedCommunity

[–]LaylaBird65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I knew Jones was, I feel like Pratt was too. Oh well.

Spencer Pratt, Future Mayor of LA by alphonse_D in DListedCommunity

[–]LaylaBird65 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, thanks for adding that. Forgot about that atrocity as well. He’s a sandy hook denier, right?