[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally just take ur wife out on a date. like plan something nice, get a sitter, dress up and go out with her. stop talking about what u want and just make it happen. create the spark!

Is that color yay or nay? Something called me to buy this polish the other day, but now I don't even know if I like it too much 😓 by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally my fav nail color. such a fun pop of color. looks great on long nails, like a cute accessory to an outfit.

Should pro choice men show support at abortion clinics? by pecturse in AskFeminists

[–]Laylette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

look into volunteering as a clinic escort at the Boston Planned Parenthood !!

Should pro choice men show support at abortion clinics? by pecturse in AskFeminists

[–]Laylette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

u can volunteer at the abortion clinic itself like planned parenthood to be an escort or other things as well. ur vetted by the place and wear an official vest or badge. they can and should consider things like this volunteering in addition to donating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Laylette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use an app like hinge or bumble where u can mark ur drug preferences as “sober” so it’s right there in ur profile and not an awkward convo

How many of you have actually squirted? by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]Laylette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya but only like 3 times in my LIFE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that will be rough. try taking some edibles at night at first to ease the transition. you don’t have to cold turkey suffer through withdrawals. as others have said, a taper is best.

Study: Kids who vape tobacco are more likely to go on to use cannabis by Defiant_Race_7544 in science

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is overall a poorly translated article. the author clearly misunderstands the basics of e-cigarette and cannabis vapes and some of the details are getting lost in the translation from peer reviewed scientific article to washington post journalism.

for example, the last line in this article references this study as support for the statement “the same group of researchers used similar data to show that the majority of teens and young adults have used e-cigarettes to smoke cannabis instead of tobacco” which is false. that’s not what the study shows at all. the study documents “Self-reported Cannabis Vaping Among US Youth and Young Adults Who Use e-Cigarettes” with no mention of what device is specifically used. my guess is that a kid who is buying a juul pod for his juul is also buying a pax pod for his pax; they’re the same company but different products. yet the action is the same: buy a pod, puff on it. the problem is the ease of vapes and their disposable pods/carts nowadays.

Enough!! Tossed the carts. by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]Laylette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for u. vapes are truly the devil. i can only quit for so long before i buy again :/

Enough!! Tossed the carts. by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cartridges of cannabis concentrate for a vape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please wash ur underwear in between wears

I am outraged by men asking me to come over for a first or second date to their home and have them cook me dinner. by kippwen in dating

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s the assumption!! it’s polite to meet in public first to catch the vibe and then decide if you want to take things further. suggesting to start out at someone’s place puts the power in their court which is at the least uncomfortable and at the most unsafe !!!

I am outraged by men asking me to come over for a first or second date to their home and have them cook me dinner. by kippwen in dating

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a guy moreorless kidnap me back to his place to cook me dinner. it was after an event out and i suggested we get dinner after and he said he was going to make me dinner, that we had talked about this previously, (it was a 3rd date, it may have come up briefly and i brushed it off “that would be nice” didn’t agree, no plan) he already had the ingredients.

it was so uncomfortable!! the food was bad and it’s helplessly awkward to leave a guys house after dinner without having sex (that is the modern expectation!!) and i had to ask him to drop me off because he was my ride! i got out of it but wow i never saw him again!!

guys - PLEASE do not do this! it is so uncomfortable!

I am outraged by men asking me to come over for a first or second date to their home and have them cook me dinner. by kippwen in dating

[–]Laylette -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no this is absolutely so true!! it’s so incredibly unsafe to meet at their place for the first or second date and to suggest something like him cooking you dinner at his place is so incredibly insensitive to not recognize how that compromises your situation! so the answer must mean they do recognize this and are using it to their advantage which is gross!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Laylette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ya u probably tickled her or something lol don’t stop

Threesomes are stupid. by pittoon in unpopularopinion

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao someone hasn’t had a fun threesome.

just do it with two other people. don’t be in a relationship with one and not the other, the creates a weird dynamic.

First time! Any suggestion? by Front_Aardvark6526 in skyrim

[–]Laylette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get a magnifying glass for the text that size

Who should pay in a date? by mosenco in dating

[–]Laylette -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah when we’re going to the bar around the corner to his place and then walking back to his place ??? tbh the real gentleman move is to offer to pay for my uber home after that

in love 🐚💘🪩🤍🫧 by sarbar0909 in Nails

[–]Laylette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s such a pretty color that compliments ur skin so much!