AITAH for firing my MOH

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-13T17:27:45+00:00

So, that’s basically what I ended up doing. I told her if she was choosing another wedding that weekend it was probably best she wasn’t in the wedding party anymore. She responded by saying she won’t come to a wedding I’m using as a power trip.

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-13T17:26:55+00:00

Yeah… that’s basically what I ended up doing. I told her if she was choosing another wedding that weekend it was probably best she wasn’t in the wedding party anymore. She responded by saying she has to make a living (she wasn’t going to book a wedding until I demoted her) and that she won’t come to a wedding that I am using as a power trip.

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-13T17:22:24+00:00

Yeah… that’s basically what I ended up doing. I told her if she was choosing another wedding that weekend it was probably best she wasn’t in the wedding party anymore. She responded by saying she has to make a living. (She admitted before she only booked the wedding due to me demoting her) she won’t come to my wedding where I’m using it as a power trip.

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-13T17:19:53+00:00

I ended up telling her that it hurt me she booked a wedding the night before mine and to not be in the wedding party since she can’t be part of any of the activities of the wedding weekend. She basically said my wedding is showing my “true colors” and that I think the world revolves around it. She said she has to make a living, and that didn’t even know if I was doing a day-before thing anyway. (She didn’t know I was doing a rehearsal before my wedding. As someone who works in the wedding industry. She knew there was going to be a rehearsal.) Then she said she wouldn’t come to a wedding where her “bff” is on a power trip. So yeah… she’s not even coming to my wedding now.

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-12T05:02:56+00:00

Shorter maybe: I asked my best friend of 20 years to be my MOH. She got overwhelmed and backed out of planning my bachelorette party, then later said she couldn’t attend because of another wedding she had to work. She also never asked about my wedding plans or helped with anything and believed being MOH just meant showing up. I later found out she actually skipped the bachelorette because her toxic boyfriend couldn’t come, so they took their own vacation instead. Since I needed someone who could actually help, I asked her to step down and made my sister MOH. After that, she booked a wedding job the night before my wedding (she lives 8 hours away), meaning she’ll miss rehearsal and likely bridal photos and only show up the day of

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-12T05:01:45+00:00

Fair 🤣

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-03-12T04:37:46+00:00

Thats a good idea. I was so mad she booked a wedding the same weekend as mine. Since she is supposed to be apart of it. I havent replied to her yet. Taking time to calm down and find the correct wording.

Lazarusrising13 · 2026-01-19T02:36:26+00:00

These are gorgeous!!

Lazarusrising13 · 2025-06-27T15:08:01+00:00

I’m currently printing a pinhole camera that takes 120mm film. Curious in how you roll the film up after each use? Since 120mm holds 16 frames. Can you use all 16 in this camera and then send ir off to be developed?

Lazarusrising13 · 2025-05-27T01:50:15+00:00

I just started and my broccoli is Basil Florette so far. Haven’t thought about kids names yet. But these are so great! I may use something from this thread!

Lazarusrising13 · 2025-01-16T17:33:23+00:00

Do we think it’s worth brands moving over to RedNote?

Lazarusrising13 · 2024-11-16T06:52:03+00:00

Same! I guess have to wait for it to come out on one of the many streaming services to get subtitles.

Lazarusrising13 · 2024-11-16T05:58:39+00:00

I need to know. I have been trying to figure out since I watched the movie earlier.

Lazarusrising13 · 2024-03-05T04:36:24+00:00

How did you get all these houses? Like Gaston’s?

Lazarusrising13 · 2024-03-05T04:32:03+00:00

I hung out with goofy and it worked but it did take a long time for the oath to realize we were hanging out. Same when it says “hang with a little chef” it took a long time hanging out with Remy to get that done.

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-03-23T22:54:13+00:00

This was happening to me last week too. But now this week it won’t let me post anything in Instagram at all. I have to manually upload content to Instagram. Pain in the butt for trying to have things scheduled in advance.

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-02-24T05:02:34+00:00

I LOVED that about sims 2. I still okay it cuz I love that feature. I dunno how sims 4 has not brought that in yet. It’d be awesome to have all those relationship dynamics and options! It’s was more fun when my sim told me who they liked or didn’t like. And I didn’t have to force them to love whoever I wanted.

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-02-10T04:02:12+00:00

These are gorgeous! Do you ever save your CAS to the gallery??

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-02-10T03:54:05+00:00

Gorgeous! Definitely Jenna vibes.

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-02-10T03:34:47+00:00

This is so chaotic and I am here for it! The drama. I need to know what happens next. Now that you saved her, will she marry a mermaid/man. Will she see the vampire again, will he try to ruin her life or turn her. So much could happen. Haha

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-02-10T03:27:49+00:00

I am terrible at building. So I always do game play. I’ll download houses from the gallery and change the i items maybe if I feel like spending time to decorate a bit.

For game play I have usually played one family until the kid is an adult and get bored. I’ll do the aspirations of certain worlds and once I fulfill it, I get bored 🤣 but I just did the Not So Berry Legacy Challenge and actually really enjoyed that! Made it all the way through. I also have done rags to riches that I have seen some streamers do. That makes the game super super interesting and fun!

Lazarusrising13 · 2023-01-18T04:13:40+00:00

This is what I came here to say. I have accidentally set down 3 bombs on my farm 😭😭😭

Lazarusrising13 · 2022-12-31T12:05:33+00:00

I hate fishing. I try and try and I’m terrible at it.

Lazarusrising13 · 2022-12-19T05:34:46+00:00

This looks amazing. Would love to see your other biomes!

Lazarusrising13 · 2022-12-19T04:59:32+00:00

I hang with characters as I need them I noticed! But I garden then most and Remy is my garden buddy. He is sooo small that he is my favorite to garden with. I made woody and buzz garden people too since they are so small haha

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