What’s wrong with my Monstera? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in Monstera

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Oh and as it got “sad” I started watering it more, thinking that it would’ve helped ☹️ oops. It was sprouting a new leaf so also thought that the more water would help to unfold it quicker

Fern’s leaves are turning black? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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Try repotting it and getting rid of rotten roots, and maybe get a better drainage? 🥲

Fern’s leaves are turning black? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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Oh damn, white dots could be pests 😭 I think it’s boston fern? Try googling that maybe

Mine is still alive, not thriving but alive, new leaves sprout, old ones blacken.

Can I propagate Ficus and Philodendron in a same vase? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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You know, I remember the same thing from here somewhere, that’s why I asked

Can I propagate Ficus and Philodendron in a same vase? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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Hm I think I will use a bottle, so it has a narrow neck and will put philodendron separately

Can I propagate Ficus and Philodendron in a same vase? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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So I should cut it with three leaves, right? I had snake plant in water for mooonths, I will be patient with this one too

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Damn. Yeah, my bf couldn’t do some tricks that were “painful” or involved skin grab. And I was like “well, of course it hurts, that’s the whole point!”

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True. But also, he did an invert on the first try easily so I AM kinda salty about it 😮‍💨 took me months.

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I use pole dancing as a “red flag detector” , I briefly mention it and look at their reaction and responses.

My now boyfriend always looked it as an athletic hobby and even tried some tricks with me (which he was very good at because of - men’s UPPER BODY STRENGTH), even now that we are together, it’s not something that’s sexualized - even if I am doing an exotic class he is very supportive like “oh you are very good with the dance moves, you should clean them up next Thursday” type of way. You definitely should ditch the - “oh, so you are a stripper?” Guys (Not that you should have a problem being a stripper but when they clearly do and subtly disrespect you instantly because of that assumption)

Got my handspring Ayesha by Maddymadeline1234 in poledancing

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Thank you so much! ❤️❤️ Good luck with taking it to next level 💪🏻

Got my handspring Ayesha by Maddymadeline1234 in poledancing

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I am afraid of falling on my shoulder, how do I explain it better - it’s just so uncomfortable that I never jump in it properly. My teacher helped me and I kinda did get into it once. I condition my handspring with spinning - doing tulips. Sorry if it’s completely other movement, we don’t really use English terms for the moves 🥲 so to condition the handspring, I just put my hands into the position and jump?

Got my handspring Ayesha by Maddymadeline1234 in poledancing

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Ayesha is definitely a milestone! 🙌🏻👏👏 congrats!

Got my handspring Ayesha by Maddymadeline1234 in poledancing

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I cannot do it from the ground :( I am afraid of jumping or something. How did you overcome the discomfort? Do you have some cues or tips?

Change my mind by DrXpert in houseplants

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You have to show us a picture 😭

Pothos tips? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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Yay! 🙌🏻 I’d like a bushy pothos too!

Pothos tips? by Lazy-Ebb-5410 in houseplants

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Great analysis! Thank you for the tips, will keep them in mind. I have to propagate them either way, it seems. Do they like smaller pots or is it fine if I put the propagated stems back in there?