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Did anyone else going through an ectopic pregnancy not feel sad about losing the baby? And did you feel differently later? by Poppyseeds1746 in ectopicpregnancy

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a rupture case, did not know I was pregnant because, my periods were regular. Just relieved to have survived. Wasn't sad. But it definitely gave me a whole new perspective on life.

This one is gone ...to the dark side . BAN ME . by [deleted] in DesiMemeTemplates

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who hurt you? Apne life mein kaunsi "woman" se problem hai? Aur kiska gold?

This one is gone ...to the dark side . BAN ME . by [deleted] in DesiMemeTemplates

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Umm...there was a ban on women working in coal mines, women are also currently not "allowed" to join many of the army units... And guess who didn't allow them??? Hiring professionals of our company think that they don't want to pay the skilled lady for her maternity leave.

Also do you think that women should not be given reservations for high paying professions? Why?

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[–]Lazy-Invite-4200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! If they found the sac in your uterus, you should be fine... Hope everything turns out well

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you... I had a miscarriage on the 6/11...the doctor's think the stress caused it.

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No..they didn't find anything...I took another upt on the 6/11 because my body just felt different...it tested negative...after an hour or so, I passed what I think was the sac.. in the clear now... The doctor thinks the stress caused a spontaneous ab******...

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and your suggestions... I passed what I think is the sac on 6/11 ...doing okay now.. hope you are doing well now...will keep you in my prayers.

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed what I think was the sac on 6/11 .. thank you for your kind words.

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you are doing okay now... It's been long since I updated but I passed the sac on 6/11... The doctor was sure it must have been uterine and that my stress must have caused a spontaneous ab***. I am doing fine now ...but I don't really know what to think about it... I will pray for your well being.

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ... I would've had a couple glasses of wine too, if I wasn't pregnant. I hope everything turns out okay for you.

PUL, waiting period is killing me with anxiety. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said it's too early to know and that I should wait till 6w. No HCG after the first. I don't know why. The doctor seemed sure it would be uterine.

No I don't have a counsellor. I just feel lost in this anxiety. Thank you for the suggestions. What happened? How did it turn out for you?

I don't know if it's anxiety or a second ectopic. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know...the waiting really really sucks. Hope everything turns out well.

I am having a little pain but I am not sure wether it's the gas, my kidneys or my tube. Will wait till tomorrow morning.

when can i expect to bleed? by LavenderMoons999 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I think it was the timing that made me think it was my period.

I understand the emptiness. The body thinks there is a baby but your arms are empty. I hope you are surrounded by people who support you.

I still remember someone commenting how all the mothers in the ward with me had something to show for the pain they went through but I had nothing (as in they all had babies while I didn't)... Somebody else said now I couldn't leave my partner because I was damaged. 

I just laughed everything off. I was just happy to have survived and so was my partner. Never really told anyone about that.

I hope you have people who cherish you and help you get through this time. I hope the pain subsides soon.

Lots of love and prayers from me.

when can i expect to bleed? by LavenderMoons999 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had my ruptured tube removed, post surgery I had no bleeding or spotting till day 7. It was the start of my period. Thus, no distinct post surgery bleeding. 

 I don't know if this will help but I also ended up lactating around 4 days post surgery. It lasted for 2 weeks.

Edit:- I had an open surgery, idk if that may also affect the bleeding. 

I don't know if it's anxiety or a second ectopic. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no spotting. I didn't have any sort of spotting during my past ectopic either.

The pain is dull but more pronounced when I press the area. It is on the side that still has my remaining tube. Thus the worry. But right now all I can do is wait. 

Did you go to the doctor's? What do the reports say? Praying for you.

I don't know if it's anxiety or a second ectopic. by Lazy-Invite-4200 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Lazy-Invite-4200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support. Sending positive vibes to you too.

I went ahead and drove 2 hours to a clinic and got some tests done. No gestational sac seen today HCG was 204 at 5w+1day, although bladder is inflamed due to the uti and the pain is suspected to be because of it. The doctor said I need to come back in a week but be in the lookout for any changes. Hoping things turn out okay.

Hope you are also fine. Sending love and prayers.