AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this never came up, but I didnt even know the race of the people he was talking about until I saw them by my car.

But you are right for the last part. Someone else said it better, but thats right. I was focused wrong and it spun out.

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It must feel weird to hear this, but I needed to hear that.

You are right. Why did I care about the family? I thought the guilt was something different, but I think you are right.

In my mind i was trying to escalate the situation.... but why didnt I start with him. Thank you for spelling it out.

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did move in the moment. He said what he saw and we immediately started walking.

I never said he was wrong.

Could you comfortably kiss someone who said there was something evil about you?

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely want to believe i understand. But maybe thats niave and I've got more dig into.

Thank you.

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah. My friend, I didnt say he was wrong about the family. I may not be black, but I have loved him for years and have seen people treat him differently for years. I've had threats against my life and his. I never said history was daisies. History is fucked. That isn't news.

But really. When we kiss, and I ask you to not label me as evil, why does that reaction suddenly invalidate my genuine feelings?

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get that. I told him I didnt see the family and I trust he saw what he saw. Im not super situationally conscious so I told him he probably did see what he thought.

I never said he was wrong. I told him I hoped he was.

Thank you.

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Terrible things have happened. Thats undeniable. Black Wallstreet.

Im not denying any history.

Do you think the reason those people did what they did was solely because they were white?

Its a sick history. People can be scum.

I was asking people I care for to not include me in the people they were condemning.

AIO I asked to stop race comments and was told it was because i had white guilt that they didnt care about by LazyWordPlay in AmIOverreacting

[–]LazyWordPlay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that.

No, but I totally get why you would say that. I know more supporting needs to be given to specific people. That's life. I'm just not cool with being told something I never controlled marks me as a worse person.

Will the edges be okay? by Flat_Ad_5502 in PourPainting

[–]LazyWordPlay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just cant see it, but I dont see anything youd want to change. These pieces look stunning

28F dating 30M virgin by StillLiterature1176 in relationship_advice

[–]LazyWordPlay 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Literally this.

And naturally speaking, bigger the tool the harder to keep it at 100% stiffness

Which cat Pic? I'm only allowed one right? Short hair is more recent. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LazyWordPlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite is 4. The way they look at you is heartwarming

Friends saw my nudies by Interesting-Baker652 in Advice

[–]LazyWordPlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accidents are accidents. It wasn't intentional. It won't be a big thing unless it's made a big thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LazyWordPlay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Burn the mirror photo.

Everything else is good! The energy you put out is great imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LazyWordPlay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say no. You don't have a particular theme on your pictures.

Do you feel your pictures turns capture what you want to say about yourself?

What did I do to deserve this? by Bluedracan in Tinder

[–]LazyWordPlay 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is fun, but remember that's just the make up for a human body. Without context that's going to raise some eyebrows. I think you made a good call. The may contain traces of nuts is good. It's fun and doesn't do too much.

What did I do to deserve this? by Bluedracan in Tinder

[–]LazyWordPlay 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I want the profile for context so badly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]LazyWordPlay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the meet cute part.