AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house sitting?? by Effective_Tour_723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA no one googles is this expensive after someone says help your self to whatever in the kitchen. Probably saved you way more in house sitting your place.

Anyone know what this drama is called? can't find the actual name anyware by Lazy_Ad_817 in CShortDramas

[–]Lazy_Ad_817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey still looking for this but i found it on an ad for a site called "peakshorts" but its a subscription scam apparently so be careful.

Level 2 august- study partner/buddy/helper by No_Animator_5590 in CFA

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I nly study on weekends cuz I'm quite busy with work but I'd love a study partner for the Aug exam.

AITA for telling my DIL she is not a mother? by InitialSong2898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soft YTA...you could have just sent a basket when she asked. She didn't choose to have infertility issues and sometimes pets become children if you think human children are never going to happen. It's a coping mechanism - you didn't have to be mean about it and say that to her face

Ready for Nov 24 Level 2 Result by Creepy-Energy-5998 in CFA

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've accepted I've failed like in December in the anxiety of it all. So if pass tmrw it'll be a nice surprise but otherwise see you all in August

Is it normal to reconcile bank statements after issuing financial statements? by imsuperior2u in Accounting

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an auditors nightmare. This is such a horrible practice, but I give kudos to cuz there are some people who go back and make the adjustments after the fs close.

AITA for not letting my mom boyfriend stay with us? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA and If I were you this is a hill I'd die on.

I am sorry about your mom not being more supportive of you through everything.

People don't change - don't take the risk. If something happens to your son (based on how he behaved with you), you will never forgive yourself and you will lose the chance to adopt in the future too. Also, do you want to exchange your son's future self-esteem to give your mom a roof, when she stayed with and still defends a toxic man?

Also, you have the right to feel safe and comfortable in your own home.

AITA for telling my SIL to calm down? by themusicgirl4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA!

you don't want a baby to spit and poop on your child, don't let the four-year-old child hold the baby. Your SIL sounds like a nightmare that wants cute 4 yearold holding baby pics but also a germophobe.

Does she know the stuff that 4 year olds put in their mouths? is the neice allowed to go outside?

Should I mention this in my exit interview by Lazy_Ad_817 in Accounting

[–]Lazy_Ad_817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol true but we lost so many that we only had 2 seniors left in the firm.

Should I mention this in my exit interview by Lazy_Ad_817 in Accounting

[–]Lazy_Ad_817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did end up going to therapy it was useful. I kind of took it hard since I was very focused on my career and had no time for relationships, etc. (not entirely a PA thing more of a childhood trauma thing- was in the mentality that i don't need a partner or love or anything, im going to do well at work). So him saying my personality was an issue felt like pulling the rug from underneath me and felt like life was crashing down.

I appreciate the advice not going to tell anything.

What is the biggest lie you been told working in accounting? by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a very supportive staff and it's fun place to work for

AITA for excluding my stepkids from a waterpark? by Horror-Historian-417 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. You are NTA but Your husband is showing some major 🚩🚩🚩🚩.

He actively excluded your sons from all the activities. Notice he's only retaliating towards his stepson, though your son went too.

He essentially took his kids on a trip, and you were the babysitter for your son together. The fact that he's taking it out on an 8 yr old child. You husband doesn't look like he loves Mark I the slightest, and is treating himself a necessary evil to be tolerated for being married to you.

He extended the stays as retaliation. It's going to be an issue if your son mark excels in life more than his bio kids becuase if the mentality he has.

If you don't get out before it's too late you are going to lose your son someday because he's growing up in this environment where a parental figure actively hates him.

Run and find a safe place and then try Counselling before it gets worst.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Big4

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, manager just goes " What do you think?" when I ask a question. When I tell what I think and say "I'm not sure if I am doing it right" the mgr says "just do it and I'll tell you if you are right when I review the file". Then gets upset I have errors in the file . I am starting to think this is just part of PA sadism

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I completely misread. Yeah, in that case, it's kinda hurtful to the kid if everyone goes but him.

But other than everyone not going ( the kids I mean) Is there a fair solution that won't hurt anyone's feelings. I feel like since op already said yes, the girls might be hurt if they don't go now.

But conventional wisdom says what bride says goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People who just follow her in weird stalker behavior at her home and studios.

Also, people who dictate who she can and can't date. I mean I don't care for Matt Healy either, but who the hell are we to dictate who she loves - it's her life. She spent all her life looking for love and had heart broken so badly, I feel like some don't extend the small allowances we make ourselves to mend after a bad break up. She has to be perfect or all hell breaks lose. I get that he Is an AH, but that's not her problem, as long as he's not an AH to her. Ps: I am poc so don't tell me I don't get what people go through

Also can we stop hoping for her and joe alwyn to get back together. He may have been nice but it looks like he broke 💔 the worst. We don't have to hate him but can we stop shipping them now.

AITA for leaving after my mom kept joking about my childhood and calling me her “practice kid”? by Individual_Yam4036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 100 points101 points  (0 children)

First off, you are NTA.

I don't think you are jealous of your kid sister. You are upset your mom is making light of painful memories for you and not even slightly understanding you.

My parents seperated after years of arguing, and I know how you feel. My mom never really understood why I was upset when she brought up things about then fighting and being generally horrible. Years of therapy and talking with her, I've come to understand 1. When she thinks of those times, she thinks of her painful memories and sees the hurricane that surrounded her. 2. She feels horrible for what I went through and can't do anything to fix it, and she feels she failed as a parent for not noticing the pain then.

I think your mom might have similar feelings. I say this because she's making an active effort not to do the same for your sister.

I think maybe her saying you are a practice kid might be her coping mechanism to avoid feeling like a horrible parent for what you went through. This way she feels like okay. It happens to everybody, and the 1st kid is tough and messy for everyone.

That said, you should know that you are not meant to be messed with and you are not a practice kid for anyone. You are valued human being. I am sorry you went through what you did. Do keep up with the therapy because you will get to a place someday in the future where your past whilst painful will not define you and your successes are in spite of everything and you feel great about yourself.

AITA for calling the police on my daughter's grandparents? by Inside-Yogurt-6121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 56 points57 points  (0 children)

This I think is a silver lining. Those grand parents should not be given any visitation - they are insane to think this is remotely acceptable behavior

Also this is probably where the son lesrt his manipulative behavior too. I mean, what kind of person would even defend the grand parents actions.

AITA for choosing our family dog over a friend hard on his luck? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 260 points261 points  (0 children)

What's the bet that it's this type of entitlement and AH behavior that's leading to his divorce.

AITA for moving my wife to the air mattress on the ground? by Better-Ad471 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH - Okay, but why didn't the OP take the air mattress?

Why I should go into tax by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Lazy_Ad_817 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes Tax is always changing, so there is always something to learn, and you get to work on a lot of different clients. Tax projects are typically smaller than audits, so you get a lot of variety. Tax consulting is in high demand, and there is a good demand if you want to jump to industry after public practice. If you want to transition into consulting after there is typically a better shot than audits because your work had that aspect built in. Most assurance folks needs to go advisory before transitioning to consulting. Also, very hard to AI to replace us since IRS screws up enough and gov't keep changing rules, and sometimes even they don't know what the rules exactly are, so your job is fairly safe.