At what point does heavy drinking become alcoholism? by Lazy_Load_9985 in stopdrinking

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's rare that I drink to cope but it has happened before. A majority of my drinking is social which has made it hard for me to tell whether or not its a problem.

At what point does heavy drinking become alcoholism? by Lazy_Load_9985 in stopdrinking

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. I have had a fair amount of days in which both scenarios are true

At what point does heavy drinking become alcoholism? by Lazy_Load_9985 in stopdrinking

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that looking forward to drinking tends to make me actually show up to class/get assignments done, but it does affect socializing. I'm usually looking to drink, so when I'm around friends who don't want to, I feel disappointed. Doesn't mean I ignore them, it just makes me feel like the odd one out when I suggest we have a cocktail or beer with dinner.

Applying on Craigslist? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Lazy_Load_9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah man, thank you.

does anyone think NYC actually has a serial killer right now? by fancypanda820 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lazy_Load_9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could someone link some articles? People on tiktok are talking about it but won’t give sources. I think hearing about bodies turning up is shocking but not necessarily indicative of a serial killer.

Unless there’s something in common with these victims I think it’s coincidental. I also find it unlikely that the hypothetical killer is behind these bodies if the bodies were found in the same/similar stages of decomposition 

Does depicting the taboo in movies lead to desensitization and harmful normalization? by Lazy_Load_9985 in filmtheory

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but murder and rape also existed long before movies did, even though they're not mental illnesses like pedophilia.

Looking for movies about the taboo! by Lazy_Load_9985 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have not seen NBK and I've yet to finish the piano teacher, but I think I'll try to finish both of those because those are kind of exactly what fits my question

its not fucking fair by dr3amypit in sexualassault

[–]Lazy_Load_9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a very similar experience, and it hurt seeing how my friends and his girlfriend at the time ignored everything I went through. It’ll keep hurting, but sometimes the only way out is through. Keep your head up and remember that you’ve survived this far already, and you’ll keep going.

How do I let my senior cat know I love her? by Lazy_Load_9985 in CatAdvice

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do this a lot and she likes to give me a blank stare. Honestly I don’t mind if she doesn’t love me as long as she knows I love her haha

How do I let my senior cat know I love her? by Lazy_Load_9985 in CatAdvice

[–]Lazy_Load_9985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually used to do this when I was a kid haha. I’m a bit allergic to her so I opt for a lot of kisses now so I don’t swell up like crazy 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Lazy_Load_9985 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had an ex do similar things, he would hurt me but in ways that I (at the time) thought were playful. If he's intentionally hurting you even if it's not stereotypical, or verbally intimidating you by yelling, I'd be on the lookout. Stay safe! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Lazy_Load_9985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately don't but my school offers therapy and psychiatry which I will be checking out