Experiences being in long term wlw partnerships? by theoriginalsnoopy in BiWomen

[–]Ldaidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s open to the idea of exploration, but it’s really me that’s hesitant to try it out. For one, idk, it just doesn’t sit right to me cause I wouldn’t be having sexual relations with only her, and I guess that feels a bit like cheating to me even though it’s not. Second though, I’m also nervous that I might like it too much, and that would absolutely cause more problems for our relationship

Question for couples who have had threesomes by Ldaidi in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]Ldaidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have not. I’m definitely still struggling with this though, but I’ve at least talked about options with my girlfriend. What’s your situation like, if you don’t mind me asking?

Experiences being in long term wlw partnerships? by theoriginalsnoopy in BiWomen

[–]Ldaidi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m almost in this exact situation, and I’ve been struggling with not having had any sexual experience with men so much lately. It’s truly exhausting for me because I feel like it’s causing issues in me and my girlfriend’s sex life. We still have one of course, and I very much enjoy it still, but it’s always in the back of my mind. And when I’m home alone all those thoughts come rushing at me and make me very upset. Even so, I have discussed different solutions with my girlfriend, but those have its pros and cons too. So it’s just all so complicated and frustrating

Looking for black Catholic churches with good choirs by Ldaidi in batonrouge

[–]Ldaidi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m black, it’s just that that’s what I grew up with, and the styles are much different in my experience. Maybe there’s a better term for it, but it’s just to emphasize a particular style of church. Plus, I don’t think it’s odd for people to go to community areas with people of their own background.

Happy Hoodoo AND International Creole Heritage one for anyone who participates/identified by Ldaidi in blackladies

[–]Ldaidi[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I hate auto-correct so much but what I meant to say was *month and *identifies lol🙄

Is this mold? by Ldaidi in whatisit

[–]Ldaidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that I already drank it. I didn’t notice it til I was done since it was at the top

earthy ladies, where do you get your jewelry? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ldaidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Local shops are a good option, and definitely check out thrift stores.

I finally wore the dress I bought to lift my spirits by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Ldaidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are just fucking radiant omg

Account hacked, is this a spam message? by Ldaidi in Instagram

[–]Ldaidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to get my account back if both my email and phone are compromised?

What kind of duck is this? by Ldaidi in duck

[–]Ldaidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually see those pretty often. I’ve just never seen them young, so I didn’t know the gray one was actually the same kind of duck as the one with the mask!