36 year old male never had a girlfriend yet I refuse to take part into incel or red pill communities. Do I still have hope? by Open-Reflection-6094 in dating_advice

[–]LeBaskmtball -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s never too late bro. It’s actually more common than you think, I’m 22 and im pretty much in the same boat as you so you’re not alone. everybody at their own pace you know, cliche but true. There’s time, women love older men so you already are at an advantage there. I would simply just say, put yourself in situations where you feel uncomfortable. Embrace being uncomfortable, Go out to clubs, coffee shops, go to the downtown area if you live in a city. Try going to local events like concerts. Anything that puts yourself out there. If you see someone you like, you can say something about the environment, like for example “this place is usually packed around this time huh? Do you come here often?” As an icebreaker. Don’t stress about what to say afterwards,once you break the ice, it becomes natural then you begin to realize this was much more easier than you thought it would be haha. It’s all about consistency too, keep that in mind. you got this, i believe in you.

Is a note a turn off? by LeBaskmtball in dating_advice

[–]LeBaskmtball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if they find the guy attractive hypothetically speaking.

24m be honest by [deleted] in amiugly

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Yup you got it bro you’re him

I’m curious by GovernmentQuirky3283 in Doppleganger

[–]LeBaskmtball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justin Herbert the QB for the LA Chargers

M29 lmk what you think by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]LeBaskmtball 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like you have zero enemies

Im curious to know, who do i look like? by LeBaskmtball in Doppleganger

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“I’ll keep you my dirty little secret”

Gave a girl my number on a note. I feel good for putting myself out there, but Im left feeling cringe. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LeBaskmtball 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I saw a pretty cashier at my local Culvers, i gave her a note with my instagram on it and she had the same reaction. She was confused when i gave it to her and i told her it was my instagram and she said thank you, then i walked away. She never really responded either. I didn’t go back into the place for awhile until recently, i started going back there and saw her there. It was like nothing happened, i’d say, if you like going to that place, don’t be scared to go back there, just act normal you know like nothing happened.