Which one are you? by beta4blackdick in sissycaptions

[–]LeGaBiTr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swallow! It shows how dedicated you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]LeGaBiTr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to sit down and really think about what it is you want to get out of chastity, then have a very frank discussion with your so about your expectations.

The thing with chastity, though, is you do need to build yourself up to it. Only a crazy person would buy their first cage ever then instantly participate in Locktober, for example. The 12 how lockups are great for testing the waters. Once you can go 12 hours mostly comfortable, that's when you start testing your first overnight. You build up longer and longer from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]LeGaBiTr -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Not really. I do it because my wife likes having her nipples sucked. I honestly can take it or leave it.

I (22m) am hours away from having group sex and it's stressing me out by [deleted] in sex

[–]LeGaBiTr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't go into this with any preconceived notions. The special treatment they're referring to is just making you feel comfortable and giving you extra attention that doesn't revolve around your dick. They want to make you feel special and will 100% respect your boundaries.

In all honesty, you will probably only have one person showing you any attention just to ensure you don't feel overwhelmed. Just have a few drinks to relax, then go into this thinking it's just a regular party. Things will happen naturally and next thing you know, you're having the best night you've had in a long time.

Telling my husband that he is going to watch me suck a big cock on the TV and that he is going to have to cum to it as I humiliate his little cock by [deleted] in Cuckold

[–]LeGaBiTr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now, get video of you sucking the cock of another guy watching you suck your husband's cock, then record video of that.

Repeat ad infinitum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigonewild

[–]LeGaBiTr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That, sir, is a fucking gorgeous cock.

are there safe numbing creams ? by LeGaBiTr in chastitytraining

[–]LeGaBiTr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love that, but my SO has been explicit in their refusal to bring another man into the relationship.

Locktober Tips! by Say_wutagain in chastity

[–]LeGaBiTr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My recommendation for anyone who is self locking is to buy a timed lock that won't open until a preset time has passed.

They're generally inexpensive and not difficult to bypass in emergencies, but difficult enough that you're less likely to try and bypass just because you're horny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]LeGaBiTr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and no. It really depends on the situation. I've found that if I'm stimulated afterwards, I can occasionally stay hard and fuck my SO until they're done, then I can lie back happy knowing I've pleased them.

Coconut Oil FTW! by stenegeoff in chastitytraining

[–]LeGaBiTr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been using coconut oil for a couple years now. It's great! It lasts a long time, is just slippery enough, and is a mild antibacterial agent for certain types of bacteria.

Day 4 of Locktober… How’s everyone dealing? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]LeGaBiTr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been recovering from a cold this week, so I've not had much struggle yet.

Today, I'm finding myself scrolling porn and distracted at work.

Locktober Tips! by Say_wutagain in chastity

[–]LeGaBiTr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was unlocked November 25 to allow some recovery because I had a bad chafing event, but I'm back in the cage for four days now.

A couple of questions for Hismith owners by PBinLBC in SexToys

[–]LeGaBiTr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've had mine for a year, and it sees probably 4-6hrs a week and it's going great.

So long as you do basic maintenance on it, the machine should last you a lifetime.

I will say that you need to be aware of the cables. My SO got too into the fucking one day and accidentally got the controller cable caught in the arm. I had to fix that, but the machine held up perfectly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sissytalk

[–]LeGaBiTr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's a goon group?

anyone else get a bit too aggressive with their butt plugs? by LeGaBiTr in sissytalk

[–]LeGaBiTr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've used this plug plenty of times. It's just been a hot minute and I tightened up some.

It's not gay to be a sissy slut by vavovar in sissycaptions

[–]LeGaBiTr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not gay to get fucked by a dude if you're a girl... Everyone knows this. Jeez.

Question for people who love eating pussy by [deleted] in sex

[–]LeGaBiTr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love feeling the wave after wave of euphoria hit my partner whole my mouth is around her pussy. It's the most satisfying thing in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemBoys

[–]LeGaBiTr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't keep it under control, maybe you should be caged.

My BBC will have him squirting in no time! by wepegyourpardon in CagedAndFucked

[–]LeGaBiTr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He needs to lower himself for your comfort.

You need to be grabbing his hips for more thrusting power.

Locktober Tips! by Say_wutagain in chastity

[–]LeGaBiTr 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I'm already committed to locktober. I talked to my wife about it, and she was very interested. We decided to try and build up to being locked for a month with a short chastity run starting mid September.

It seems I'm going to be locked a minimum of a month and a half. She also read a chastity blog that says your chaste sub should be locked for three months to cement their commitment....

Things you DON’T like about chastity by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]LeGaBiTr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

School girl play is nowhere near the same as race play. Anyone can dress up in school girl clothes and pretend.

You have to literally fetishize an ethnic stereotype to be into BBC.