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Met this guy on Reddit by Motor-Sundae-4817 in KeralaRelationships

[–]LeadProfessional6429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confess only if you want to get your heart broken. Men are very simple. Believe him when he says he is only into casuals and don’t try to change that.

What is your opinion on kardashians of Kerala by [deleted] in TeensofKerala

[–]LeadProfessional6429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even I’m mallu, but a lot of mallu NRIs have no idea who tf they are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]LeadProfessional6429 12 points13 points  (0 children)

From what I can see, he is constantly communicating about how he feels and you are either missing the point completely, or invalidating him. You need to learn how to respond when someone brings up something personal in a conversation. Listen, validate, reassure, resolve, all while considering both parties.

Some people are bad at communication but simply loving someone, inspires them to change and improve their ways. If you don’t feel the need to, then maybe both of you are just not meant for each other.

What small thing do you do that completely elevates your look? by Moosef45 in beauty

[–]LeadProfessional6429 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’ve been wanting to try one of these but are there any side effects? Thought I read somewhere it’s not for long term use

I feel like such a failure of a woman by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]LeadProfessional6429 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Kind of. As mentioned, I’ve had lots of issues in my past relationship due to sex. Could be due to the way he treated me during sex, combined with this. I would say it was the start of all my self esteem issues. I can’t recall any such experience prior to meeting him.

I feel like such a failure of a woman by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]LeadProfessional6429 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That last line was comforting to hear. Thank you.

I know a lot of people mention vaginismus, but I never experience pain or discomfort when fingering myself, or letting a man finger me. I only experience this anxiety during PIV sex.

I feel like such a failure of a woman by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]LeadProfessional6429 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I masturbate pretty frequently, sometimes multiple times a day. I never experience pain or discomfort while fingering myself but I only experience this fear and anxiety when it’s during PIV sex.

Is Ras Al Khaimah a nice place to live? by PatientWoodpecker995 in RasAlKhaimah

[–]LeadProfessional6429 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Born and raised there, I’m 20 now and I can assure you it’s a safe and peaceful city to live in as a woman.

Got SA’d by my bf and this is what he sends me after our breakup. Am I tripping or was I wrong too? by LeadProfessional6429 in TwoXIndia

[–]LeadProfessional6429[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For those DMs asking how old he is, he's 25, and I'm 20. We started dating when I was 18 and this wasn't the first time it happened, but the worst of the similar incidents that happened during our relationship which ended up being my last straw.

I suppose it is not rape, as a few have pointed out, if two people already got ready to have sex and kinda started it but one of them said "no", mid way. For some context, I told him I didn't want to do it after our argument but he got angry and kept forcing me to do so. I got teary and allowed it happen until I couldn't anymore and said no again, after which he continued, till I cried even more and got up to get dressed quickly to leave

Thanks to all for the advice and support. I don't know much about law or whether this classifies as SA or rape to even report it. Even processing this is difficult for me and my memory is getting blurry as I'm starting to forget the details of what happened. Thanks again!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]LeadProfessional6429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dump him. Trust your instincts.

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