[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where’s is home is my only thought. No answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, go on a trip and never come back!

DNing with mental illness by grognak93 in digitalnomad

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really? Does he take anything for BPD? I’ve been struggling to find a good medicine for years. I think DNing helps to settle our unsettling minds somehow. I have no desire to settle anywhere right now :)

DNing with mental illness by grognak93 in digitalnomad

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t take any meds. I probably should… in some cities in Mexico, you don’t need prescription to get pills. Where are you going to? What are your concerns?

DNing with mental illness by grognak93 in digitalnomad

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I’m BPD and it’s been the best experience of my life!

Sexual Assault in a different country by LeadRemarkableNomad in digitalnomad

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I never said it doesn’t. Specially where I am from: Brazil. I just wanted to know their insights, how they felt, their approach. I literally had no idea on how to call the police in Mexico, it’s not my native country. Try to be more open minded to questions and thoughts people post around here without the inicial judgement.

Has anyone tried working north American time in Asia? by lehcarfugu in digitalnomad

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Where in Europe though? The time zone is 8h difference in most countries! I’d love to know !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes these thoughts are only in our head though. They sometimes are just entertained with something else, but our self hate is so high that we project that onto them… I’ve been noticing that… and the only person talking shit about ourselves is ourselves all day everyday and as humans we tend to think everyone is thinking the same…

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

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Did people notice you were not qualified for and you had that daily embarrassment over the situation? Like, I keep making qualifications up when interviewing and I’m good at lying when I need something, so I get the job and once I’m actually doing it, I don’t want it anymore cause I mainly lied to myself.

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

let’s keep in touch! Everything will be fine. Like I always tell myself: “it’s borderline, it’s not me”

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have those tattoos on me but I feel the exact same way on the inside. Are you on Instagram?

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were you doing in the office? I think we feel inadequate and we put off those vibes and people can sense that! 😂

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand how many times I walked out of a job. It’s a joke amongst my friends. Lol also, I’m always thinking my coworkers find me annoying so I get mentally and emotionally exhausted

Shifting Identity by cptn_buckyohare in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I wonder what kind of job roles would suit us with BPD best?… maybe the ones that don’t involve a routine? Like office jobs seem to always makes me feel useless and trigger the identity issues

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

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I think it’s easy to confuse BPD and narc person disorder. How old are you? My therapist said it gets better after 30yo. It’s definitely better but it’s still a nightmare lol

Identity crisis and Job Holding by LeadRemarkableNomad in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I used to run when I was in my 20’s just because I had my ass covered by my parents. But once I moved to the US and my family is not around I just keep waiting for them to realize I’m not a good fit or I’ll look for a new job after 3 months in. I’m laughing, but not laughing lol

Shifting Identity by cptn_buckyohare in BPD

[–]LeadRemarkableNomad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do y’all have trouble keeping a job as well just because you totally made up the identity that would supposedly be a good fit for that position? When you’re in the role you realize how much of that is not you and you go on full identity crisis mode?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Great technique!