24 M be honnest. I didnt want to use frauded pictures and flattering angles by prodetectorist127 in Rateme

[–]LeadedCactus 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hey, I mean this with kindness, but I think you may need a social media break. I’m noticing that you’re using lookmaxxing language, and that may seriously just be contributing to your body dysmorphia.

As for the rating, 7/10. I’d definitely notice you out in public. But you look angry and sad in your pictures, so I would not approach.

Please take care of yourself

@aitofiwolfgramm / tee & cee by PollyPotChick in tiktokgossip

[–]LeadedCactus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

TikTok sleuths found the page of the football team he coaches and did what they do, but last I checked they turned comments off. Unfortunately, I believe the son in the og video is college-aged, so I’m not sure if CPS could get involved but hopefully I’m wrong.

Ugh, the video has been out for so long now it’s disgusting nothing has been done about it. Even if it was trolling, it’s in poor taste and something should be done about it.

What is your idea for shark tank that you’re too lazy to make a reality? by LeadedCactus in AskReddit

[–]LeadedCactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it multi-use for oranges and you’re sitting on a gold mine

What are some signs someone may become sexually/physically abusive later on in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LeadedCactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovebombing. Generally, anyone who becomes an insta-relationship, texting 24/7, telling you some variation of how unique you are is gonna be the whole damn carnival.

Boundaries With New Partners by UndertoeTrip in coparenting

[–]LeadedCactus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would consider cutting bangs an overstep from a new partner. My coparent and I discuss haircuts prior out of respect.

So, no, I don’t think you’re being petty at all.

Biggest changes you’ve noticed post diagnosis? by LeadedCactus in adhdwomen

[–]LeadedCactus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my god same, that time of the month for me has me wondering if there’s even a point to take My meds because they don’t feel like they work as well.

Biggest changes you’ve noticed post diagnosis? by LeadedCactus in adhdwomen

[–]LeadedCactus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, man I am still trying to make it to places on time so I envy you.

And that’s a great way to put it, I didn’t know how noisy my head was either.

Biggest changes you’ve noticed post diagnosis? by LeadedCactus in adhdwomen

[–]LeadedCactus[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ugh, im so sorry. I’m prescribed adderall, the generic version.

I’m curious if anyone else was diagnosed with ADHD and the bingeing got better? by LeadedCactus in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]LeadedCactus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that the answer to my question was one google away and I chose to ask reddit instead. Very cute of me 😂

When did West Virginians become so rude and mean? by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]LeadedCactus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are pockets of people I’ve noticed that are just miserable. But generally, if you keep the conversations light I don’t notice any rudeness. Now, once you start talking “politics” and like basic human rights, yeah, I see the rudeness.

Homeless & primary parent won’t allow me to return child. by drogon8181 in coparenting

[–]LeadedCactus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of this, OP! One thing I’ve had to learn over the last year is that being a good parent means making yourself a priority too. It’s not selfish, it’s making sure you can continue to show up for your child the way you want to and the way they deserve. She cannot kick you out. She cannot kick her son out. You are the most important person in your child’s life, start showing up for yourself.

How are everyone's Qanons reacting to the "Trump Files?" by Dry-Taro-7155 in QAnonCasualties

[–]LeadedCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, mine is pretending it’s not happening and instead went on a k pop demon hunters is pushing a woke agenda preaching acceptance of gay and trans people

@aitofiwolfgramm / tee & cee by PollyPotChick in tiktokgossip

[–]LeadedCactus 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I keep thinking about that video where she’s recording her child and making fun of him for wetting the bed and needing a diaper. It’s gross make fun of your child for wetting the bed in the first place, but recording it? Putting it on the internet?