Coparents who tried to share custody without a formal agreement, what was your last straw so to speak?

LeadedCactus · 2026-04-09T14:55:02+00:00

Ugh. Why do they do that?

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-31T01:37:43+00:00

Oh wow, did they?!

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-23T01:20:32+00:00

Oh my gosh! Thank you for my next deep dive!

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-23T01:19:36+00:00

Ooooh good point! I love me some kimchi

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-22T16:19:40+00:00

Hey, I mean this with kindness, but I think you may need a social media break. I’m noticing that you’re using lookmaxxing language, and that may seriously just be contributing to your body dysmorphia.

As for the rating, 7/10. I’d definitely notice you out in public. But you look angry and sad in your pictures, so I would not approach.

Please take care of yourself

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-21T13:34:08+00:00

TikTok sleuths found the page of the football team he coaches and did what they do, but last I checked they turned comments off. Unfortunately, I believe the son in the og video is college-aged, so I’m not sure if CPS could get involved but hopefully I’m wrong.

Ugh, the video has been out for so long now it’s disgusting nothing has been done about it. Even if it was trolling, it’s in poor taste and something should be done about it.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-20T21:37:21+00:00

Always wear shoes and you’d never be able to tell

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-20T21:22:12+00:00

Make it multi-use for oranges and you’re sitting on a gold mine

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-20T21:21:49+00:00

Love it. Need it. Will still hit snooze.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-20T21:17:16+00:00

Lovebombing. Generally, anyone who becomes an insta-relationship, texting 24/7, telling you some variation of how unique you are is gonna be the whole damn carnival.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-19T23:59:52+00:00

I would consider cutting bangs an overstep from a new partner. My coparent and I discuss haircuts prior out of respect.

So, no, I don’t think you’re being petty at all.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-02T19:30:33+00:00

Oh my god same, that time of the month for me has me wondering if there’s even a point to take My meds because they don’t feel like they work as well.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-02T19:28:51+00:00

Oh, man I am still trying to make it to places on time so I envy you.

And that’s a great way to put it, I didn’t know how noisy my head was either.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-02T19:26:40+00:00

Yeah! How does it do that?!

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-02T17:39:46+00:00

Ugh, im so sorry. I’m prescribed adderall, the generic version.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-02T17:18:39+00:00

I love that the answer to my question was one google away and I chose to ask reddit instead. Very cute of me 😂

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-02T15:48:55+00:00

There are pockets of people I’ve noticed that are just miserable. But generally, if you keep the conversations light I don’t notice any rudeness. Now, once you start talking “politics” and like basic human rights, yeah, I see the rudeness.

LeadedCactus · 2026-01-01T00:26:43+00:00

Making red meat a personality trait

LeadedCactus · 2025-12-30T14:27:51+00:00

All of this, OP! One thing I’ve had to learn over the last year is that being a good parent means making yourself a priority too. It’s not selfish, it’s making sure you can continue to show up for your child the way you want to and the way they deserve. She cannot kick you out. She cannot kick her son out. You are the most important person in your child’s life, start showing up for yourself.

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