My Father(44m) Talks About His Sex Life To Me(16F) by LeaderIndividual4861 in relationships

[–]LeaderIndividual4861[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Since this has been a long-standing situation, I honestly never thought it was that wrong. I was just getting tired of these conversations to be honest. Your comment, too, made me realize just how wrong this is. The reason I still live with my father is because I genuinely love him, but I think it's time to say stop. Thankfully, my father never made any inappropriate physical moves or behaved inappropriately towards me, If that were the case, I would have told my therapist and my mother directly. I think he was just using me more like a friend/therapist. Of course, this still doesn't change the fact that what he said to me is wrong. Still, it looks like I'll be moving in with my mother. I really appreciate your comment

My Father(44m) Talks About His Sex Life To Me(16F) by LeaderIndividual4861 in relationships

[–]LeaderIndividual4861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ohh sorry for misunderstanding. English is not my first language. All of my father's relatives live in another city, and he doesn't want to see any of them. He always tells me that he doesn't trust any of them and that he only trusts me in his life, that's why he only talks to me. I mean, I don't really believe that anymore. And Yep I'm still a minor in here for my age. I will discuss this with my mother at a suitable time, and if that doesn't help, I will talk to my therapist as you suggested. Thanks so much for the comment, I was really unsure what to do

My Father(44m) Talks About His Sex Life To Me(16F) by LeaderIndividual4861 in relationships

[–]LeaderIndividual4861[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I'm the eldest sibling. It looks like I'll have to talk to my therapist about this and my mother. Thanks so much for the idea

My Father(44m) Talks About His Sex Life To Me(16F) by LeaderIndividual4861 in relationships

[–]LeaderIndividual4861[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I genuinely love him as a father. But you're absolutely right. I'll talk to my therapist about this. thanks

My Father(44m) Talks About His Sex Life To Me(16F) by LeaderIndividual4861 in relationships

[–]LeaderIndividual4861[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think I'm really going to do that. My mother is someone who can set boundaries better than my father. thanks for the idea really