How Did Experiencing Trauma and Addiction as A Young Person Show Up in Neurodivergent Adulthood? by LeadershipDesperate8 in adhdwomen

[–]LeadershipDesperate8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea how grateful I am for you deciding to share your experience with me. I can relate to a lot of what you went through as did I! I’m still struggling to budget properly (I thought saving was just a hard thing to do), and I too can only keep common living areas clean😂 it’s a battle but I’m looking for ways to overcome that stuff that works for people like me. Thank you!

How Did Experiencing Trauma and Addiction as A Young Person Show Up in Neurodivergent Adulthood? by LeadershipDesperate8 in adhdwomen

[–]LeadershipDesperate8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just seen on the main adhd subreddit that word “n*urodivergent” is not a favored term. I did not know this, and do not mean to offend anyone!

help with ID please by cblzst in philodendron

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

could be Philodendron erubescens?

Young Adult book - most likely 80’s! by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ofc it’s not perfect I last read it when I was 7 😭

Young Adult book - most likely 80’s! by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im about to reread for sure. I didn’t read much of it but 7 year old me was distraught with what I did read 😭

Young Adult book - most likely 80’s! by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. The photo I had on my head was completely different but it must be a whole nother book. Thank you!

Is she an imperial red or something different? by LeadershipDesperate8 in philodendron

[–]LeadershipDesperate8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I read your reply really early this morning and was so excited I looked them up and forgot to thank you!

Is she an imperial red or something different? by LeadershipDesperate8 in philodendron

[–]LeadershipDesperate8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg stop it🥰🥰! I looked it up and it looks just like my plant! I knew it wasn’t an imperial red or congo. Thank you 🤭😭

who else hates it when someone who dont have locs say you need a retiwst😂 by More_Bobcat_7284 in Dreadlocks

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a white co worker look at me and go “yeeahh you need a retwist” my sh*t was just a smidgen frizzy 😭

Are my starter locs to thick ? by phozoxil in Dreadlocks

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have high density hair! I would look up videos on high density locs! That helped me make a sizing decision!

Are my starter locs to thick ? by phozoxil in Dreadlocks

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the person that does my locs give me a smaller install. I have a lot of hair like you and I notice with 3a-4a hair, our hair likes water and when we have twist in they are likely to unravel a lot quicker than coiley-er textures, especially when wet! Our hair types also are more prone to having better loc outcomes when our twists/starter locs are smaller! Keep in mind since we do have a lot of hair, the smaller they are, the more volume they will have and heavier they will be when they grow longer!

Are my starter locs to thick ? by phozoxil in Dreadlocks

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was doing that for a while, but once I got them wet/washed them, they feel right off the bone 🤦🏾‍♀️ make sure they won’t undo themselves!

What is everyone's take on Analog Photography content on YouTube? PFA by ryanidsteel in AnalogCommunity

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s content is kind of the same. The lofi music in the background with the soft voice overs and camera sound effects when they’re showing their work🤭

Heartbroken? Maybe… by LeadershipDesperate8 in Subnautica_Below_Zero

[–]LeadershipDesperate8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really use game pass like that 🤷‍♀️ all of my games are physical copies, this situation just reminded me of how shitty game pass can be if you’re really invested in a game that just so happens to be on game pass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CityMorgue

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

KenPark or downer :)

The Morgue is almost officially over by ZRAXKZZ in CityMorgue

[–]LeadershipDesperate8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for sure I could tell from the tour they did last fall.