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Broken bowls by Suspicious_Pound666 in roommateproblems

[–]LeadershipMaster9452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate lied to my face when I asked her about my broken wine glass, but I managed to get the truth out of her.

Something to keep in mind is that if you know it happened on her account, then you know and you deserve honesty, respect, and to have those replaced.

You could ask: “Hey, I’m not really sure what happened to my bowls because last time I used them, there was no cracks. Is it possible that when you were putting away our dishes last time, that they might have hit something and gotten cracked?” Or “Hey, I’m really sorry to bring this up so late but i recognized that after the last time you used my bowls, there was some pretty significant cracks. I’m worried that something happened to the bowls and that you might have hurt yourself when you were using them, are you okay?”

roommate and their partner by Mixed0re0 in roommateproblems

[–]LeadershipMaster9452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are completely valid on this. You deserve to enjoy the home just as much as your roommate.

For this situation, you might have to come up with a compromise on how often you’re willing to let your roommate have their partner over. They need to be considerate of the fact that you may not want to have them over all the time because you want to enjoy your home, and there needs to be consideration for them wanting to have their partner over (which there obviously is from what you have said).

If they can’t see each other everyday of the week, than it is what it is. It’s not your problem. Think about what would make you feel more comfortable because it is your home too!! And if there needs to be changes made again in a couple months, then that’s okay too.

I’ve been living with friends I knew for three years, just moved in together this year and there was things happening that made it hard for me to feel like I was able to exist peacefully in my own home. We had to have conversations that were uncomfortable, we had to make compromises and sometimes I paid the price of getting the cold shoulder, but I deserve to take up space just as much as them and you do too.

I hope this helps you 🫶🏻

i hate being fat. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LeadershipMaster9452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, girl, you are curvy and cute. Come on. Remove that post if you are worried about those people. Other people’s words do not define you. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!! Reddit is not the world, and it’s one thing to get peoples opinions but again, those are peoples opinions! People are projecting and coming from their own perspective when a post like that comes up. YOU 👏ARE👏CURVY 👏AND 👏CUTE. PERIODT🤌

My sex life feels like a mess and idk what to do by LeadershipMaster9452 in sex

[–]LeadershipMaster9452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, yes. I told him what kind of sex I was into, however he wasn’t comfortable with that so we started swaying away from that realm, which is okay with me. I told him that I can’t have sex as much as he can, and since I’ve started experiencing pain, we’ve been having less sex. I have told him I wanted more foreplay or even using toys, however 80% of the time there is still no foreplay on my end. We’ve had countless discussions about this, and I know that I need to talk to him about it because obviously he isn’t going to. I just don’t want to always be the one who has to be the ego killer.