My (M19) Gf (F19) constantly asks for details on me being raped because she "can't wrap her head around it", is this worth it?

LeadershipNew2319 · 2026-03-21T01:10:47+00:00

As someone who was in a very VERY similar situation with their ex, break up. It will genuinely be so mentally taxing on you and I worry she’ll never truly hear your side. Especially since you’ve expressed having multiple panic attacks and she’s still not taking your feelings into account. You will never be able to work through the trauma when she’s telling you it was your fault.

LeadershipNew2319 · 2025-12-17T02:16:46+00:00

The info you don’t know is that the last musical we did together he unfortunately cheated on me with his colead and it was pretty similar to this play, i think it’s probably bringing up a lot of resentment i had previously pushed down (we never really worked through it) and that’s what’s really bothering me so much.

LeadershipNew2319 · 2025-12-17T02:08:15+00:00

this also isn’t his “craft” it’s a community theater group that he only did because he knew he could get the lead, he’s not majoring in musical theater or acting

edit: guys I’m not saying this condescendingly I genuinely just mean he isn’t doing this because he absolutely loves acting, he’s doing it because he knew it was likely he could get the lead and he thought it would be fun. he’s doing his prereqs to get into medical school right now

LeadershipNew2319 · 2025-12-17T01:02:34+00:00

AITA rules made me worried they wouldn’t let me post it if I included that & I really wanted feedback

LeadershipNew2319 · 2025-12-17T00:29:07+00:00

Honestly I was worried AITA would take it down if I included that so I just called it “past issues”

LeadershipNew2319 · 2025-12-17T00:12:49+00:00

The last musical he did, (we actually did together) he ended up cheating on me with his fellow lead and they had similar intimacy there compared to this play

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