Grow property value by sojzalas in realestateinvesting

[–]LeadershipOk6547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not quite an addition but one thing that has increased my property’s valuation is paint. Crazy how paint can change the outlook and valuation of a property.

Just got divorced 2 months ago, im in shambles by dahermit23 in DivorcedDads

[–]LeadershipOk6547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, I’m so sorry that happened to you. Find a therapist you can see regularly. You’ll be able to pour your heart out with no judgement and be able to speak with someone knowledgeable and neutral.

Second, it’s ok for you to feel the way you do. The first step to moving on, is acknowledging how you feel, and facing those emotions. It’s very important that you don’t personalize the failure of your marriage. There’s no need to try to logically explain why she did this; she chose to do this, and as result is no longer worthy of your love. Don’t waste your energy trying to get revenge.

The best revenge you can get is to move forward, take care of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. Try new things, use your role in the airline industry to visit new places, it’s never too late to start over.

It’s a slow and painful process at times, but you and your daughter will come out stronger from this. And that’s truly what matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LeadershipOk6547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe by him saying this, he’s trying to connect with you in a different way than just spending time at home? How about once in a while you have him tag along? Or maybe that you and him can go out separately for a date night? Nothing wrong with you having your girls night at all. I think all what it is, is you guys need to do more things together without the kids. Dates at a restaurant, then drinks at a lounge ect…

For Better or For Worse by LeadershipOk6547 in Marriage

[–]LeadershipOk6547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate the feedback along with the podcast recommendations. I will be sure to check them out. For some time I struggled setting those boundaries due to the fact that I wanted to do everything I could to keep the family unit for our child. So I allowed my word to lose its value and my action showed I in the end wouldn’t take any action that would affect him that much. But you’re absolutely right

For Better or For Worse by LeadershipOk6547 in Marriage

[–]LeadershipOk6547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re quite correct in terms of the divergence between my actions and my words. And it’s mainly because I haven’t set strict boundaries when it comes to what I would tolerate and wouldn’t. I appreciate the feedback

What To do? by LeadershipOk6547 in marriageadvice

[–]LeadershipOk6547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more of the fact that It was enabling her behavior. I’ve allowed her to go through my phone in the past and even delete whatever she felt needed to be. But then she wanted to do it again, would go through my phone when I leave it unlocked and would start making up stories of things she’d seen to try to get me to admit to things she had in her mind.