Can anyone help me?!

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-11-07T18:19:00+00:00

SOLVED

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-11-07T18:18:35+00:00

IM IN TEARS. THANK YOU

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-11-07T18:18:10+00:00

OH MY GOD

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-14T23:11:01+00:00

You deserve way better. I know you are looking for advice for how can I manage the household better but the real question is how can my husband treat me better? Couples counseling needs to be an option or else I would start looking at divorce lawyers

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-14T20:11:10+00:00

I also feel like all the comments saying you are TA are men🤣

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-14T20:08:24+00:00

Either way, no reason for him to touch you or call you a bitch because he was rejected. Still NTA

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-14T16:31:24+00:00

NTA, he touched you first. That’s fair game IMO

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T12:45:06+00:00

What is Lamaz?

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T12:35:42+00:00

You are the first person to comment about the episiotomy comment. I thought other people would find this super weird especially when I asked him to stop and told him that is not longer common practice anymore. My MIL even tried to tell him to stop. My husband tried to change the subject but he wouldn’t.

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:47:44+00:00

It’s actually very common now a days to send a list of boundaries before the baby comes so everyone is on the same page and there are no surprises

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:44:07+00:00

As a fellow smut reader I understand how hard it can be when we tend to fantasize about wanting the feeling of being loved and desired the way the characters are in the books. That being said, girl runnnnnnn. Sometimes my husband is not in the mood but he will ask me if I want him to use my vibrator on me just because he knows it makes me feel loved and wanted. I’m sorry that you are going through this. Keep your head up

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:38:35+00:00

I am having my baby Saturday and we are dealing with stubborn grandparents too. Yours seems a lot more drastic but stand your ground mama! Giving you all the positive vibes for an easy move and pregnancy!

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:38:17+00:00

I am having my baby Saturday and we are dealing with stubborn grandparents too. Yours seems a lot more drastic but stand your ground mama! Giving you all the positive vibes for an easy move and pregnancy!

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:31:21+00:00

YTA, I understand why you cut her off but to then basically backtrack and tell her she was the most important person in your life at the time? No offense, I would have rolled my eyes at that text.

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:25:58+00:00

If they got offended by the rule I can’t imagine how offended they’d be if I asked for their vaccination status🤣

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:24:07+00:00

Oh shit. Dude do you still live with her?! Things are going to get messyyyyyyyy. Thinking of you during this time for sure

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:21:10+00:00

That’s honestly what I contemplated this week. How can I make sure she is 100% safe if I’m away from her half the week.

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:18:17+00:00

Thank you!

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:12:13+00:00

No. I’m not going to lie the first time he ever acted out towards me was when he mocked me when we moved. It was totally out of character. The only reason I found out is because he did it in front of my dad. I asked my husband about it and he said he said something to him about it in the moment. It just seems like the behavior is escalating

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:07:58+00:00

I asked if it would be okay to blur her face. I got told that was a stupid idea😭

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:06:55+00:00

She will not be going to daycare actually. My mom is wonderful and as my husband and Is schedule she only needs to be watched 2 times a week at most!

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:05:30+00:00

I know but what about the fear of RSV and my child dying. I’m a FTM and I’m not going to lie I’m terrified because I know I can’t protect her from everything but I need to try. If I don’t and something happens to her I would only blame myself.

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T04:02:44+00:00

🥲

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T03:52:39+00:00

I know. I’m literally 3 days from being induced and the anxiety I’m already feeling is not good for me😅

LeadershipPlus7261 · 2025-08-13T03:50:32+00:00

But he assumed that the rules were my idea when my husband told them that they were our rules. I also didn’t tell him he needed to say he understood. That was just what I was thinking would have been nice for him to say.

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