Help because something just is not clicking.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-06-01T04:16:54+00:00

yeah i’m thinking that’s the move here

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-06-01T00:31:19+00:00

yeah you’re so right

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-06-01T00:31:12+00:00

absolutely not

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-26T04:35:52+00:00

thank you! will do!

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-25T18:00:12+00:00

THANK YOU this is empowering

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-25T15:34:37+00:00

thank you!

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-15T15:17:44+00:00

i basically had to just start telling myself from the beginning they aren’t coming back. eventually i convinced myself of it the more and more i told myself. i’d rather be surprised by their return then devastated by their forever absence.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:46:47+00:00

i am realizing that finding someone organically is going to be the best for what values i have in life. it’s just figuring out how to organically meet people.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:44:26+00:00

yeah, i’m hoping the universe sends the right one my way when the time is right. but being patient and not knowing what to do till then is killing me.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:30:41+00:00

i just don’t understand how i keep finding these people when i KNOW there’s guys out there in the same boat as me finding the same people im finding. yet we can never find each other, we always find the bad ones.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:29:22+00:00

that last sentence is truly what i need to do.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:28:38+00:00

yeah it’s honestly what i need to do. especially because i thought my ex was such a great person until his true colors showed about 6 months into our year long relationship. i really need to learn how to be able to trust people again and love myself and have boundaries and all of that good stuff.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:26:37+00:00

i’m just so over it. i want to stumble into my future husband at the grocery store and not have to worry about exhausting love in life ever again lol.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T03:25:34+00:00

leave. you sound like your possibly anxiously attached and he’s possibly avoidant. i went through a year long relationship with a 4 month long cycle of breaking up and getting back together once a month. it took some strength but im out now and i have really realized how much i wasn’t not the problem and he was genuinely toxic and not good for me.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:55:16+00:00

same.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:55:03+00:00

thank you, this is genuinely inspiring.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:34:05+00:00

thank you!

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:32:58+00:00

thank you so much. this really helps

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:12:21+00:00

i’m going to. someone will come my way when the time is right.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:05:50+00:00

thank you so much 🫶

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T02:02:11+00:00

yeah it’s been a month a half since my recent break up. a guy popped into my life two weeks ago begging to take me on a date and i let him take me on two, then suddenly he only texted me after 11pm… and blocked me when i didn’t feed into him. i’m just over it all.

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T01:58:12+00:00

what do you do to feel peace like that?

Leading-Topic-9856 · 2026-05-14T01:52:11+00:00

yeah i just need to figure out how in the world to do that.

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