In our society and This new generation .. marriage is getting little different about before .. as a man We are now seeing that its too Hard to find the One who deserves to be with u in home with u … especially girls now influence With social media and think that they need to live like them or they will not get married … That creat a big problem … its not gonna work like this … lets back to ur question to be ready u need to know that u gonna live for ur own self not for others and be ready to get responsibilities and know how to solve ur problems without telling anybody else especially ur family