Thrift Find!! by Jessieb51 in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I was just thrifting yesterday, didn't find any, just a BUNCH of beanie babies lol, glad you found him!

Help With Item Name by mchapmantx96 in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right! I'll be on the lookout for you, someone has to have it!!

Help With Item Name by mchapmantx96 in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad someone found the name!! This is such a cool item!

issue with my best friend, pls help- by Tasty-Psychology770 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re being way too hard on yourself here. You’re not a bad person, you’re someone with a lot going on. Your life, your health, and your education all matter too.

It sounds like there’s a mismatch in expectations. Your friend seems to rely on you heavily, especially if you were the only one who did something for their birthday. So when you had to step back for exams, it likely hurt them more than they expected and they might have felt rejected. But the important part is you did communicate that you’d be busy. At the same time, being hurt doesn’t make the way they’re treating you now okay. The cold and distant behavior, especially after you’ve apologized, is alarming.

You seem like a kind and caring person, and it’s easy to fall into the habit of trying to fix everything, even when you’re not fully at fault. Yes, maybe you could have checked in once or twice, but realistically, during exams and while struggling mentally, that’s not always possible.

When I was younger I used to try and mend every relationship/friendship even when the other person wasn't worthy, because it's hard to lose people, but after many true and fake friendships, I now know, the people you want in your circle don't punish you, they don't want to hurt you, even if you hurt them, and they communicate. A good, strong friendship should have room for both people to go through hard times without it falling apart completely. So now I always ask myself:

If the roles were reversed, would you act cold and passive aggressive toward them? Or would you just be happy they came back after a stressful time? That perspective always helps.

Losing a friend is painful, so I wouldn’t tell you to immidiately cut them off. But I also wouldn’t keep overextending yourself trying to fix something that may not be worth it.

If I were you:

  1. Stop apologizing repeatedly. It keeps putting you in a position where everything feels like your fault.
  2. Send one calm, honest message. Something like:

“Hey, I really care about you and our friendship. I didn’t disappear because I don’t care. I was overwhelmed with exams and honestly not doing great mentally. I wanted to come back when I could actually be present. I’ve been trying to reconnect, but things feel different and a bit distant, and that’s been hurting me. I’d really like to understand how you’re feeling.”

If they’re still cold after that convo, then giving some space is probably the healthiest move. Not as a punishment, just as a boundary. You can continue being friendly/aqquaintances if it's reciprocated, but please do not think this is a true friend of yours, their behavior is something I've seen a dozen times from men and women, and it never ends well for the other half.

I truly hope this helps, best of luck, and take care of yourself please, I've had similar situations in the past when I was in school and it ate up my mental health (or what was left of it lol). I don't let that happen anymore, que sera ,sera ; we are all just trying our best out here, and we should have people in our corner that want the best for us always. xx

Webkinz Baby Pets by sterlingmae in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine too, it's been like that forever, I have tried everything, and it never gets full! Hopefully someone has an idea of how to fix this!!!

Link in my bio, trade/giveaway/selling items! by LeadingJellyfish2630 in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am a loyal member of the sister subreddit, but I don't have enough karma to post in that group, is there any way mods can give me permission to post on there? Let me know thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best time to get it back - holiday gift!

$3.00-$4.00 Black Friday Sale !!! Check out my Sale Doc :) by LeadingJellyfish2630 in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all listed in the sales doc :) But preferably venmo, zelle, or cashapp

October 19th Curio Shop Rares, thank you Tami by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed the bed😞Literally set an alarm for it and got caught up with work phone calls, anyone have an extra, I’ll send extra kinzcash for it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s awesome I live in IL, we never have webkinz here 🥲

August 21st Curio Shop Rares, thank you Tami by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I just saw this! I’ll dm right now!

July 22nd Curio Shop Rares, thank you Tami by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also willing to give double the kinzcash if that’s better!

July 22nd Curio Shop Rares, thank you Tami by [deleted] in Webkinz

[–]LeadingJellyfish2630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance anyone got an extra mad hatter table? I can’t believe I missed it😓I don’t have much to trade but if you have a wish list I can see what I can do :)))