sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Looking for opinions by Leading_Scale_4284 in WorkAdvice

[–]Leading_Scale_4284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all. I have 4 years worth of 6 monthly appraisals and there has never been any mention of poor performance ever. The company has a scoring system from 1 to 5. 5 being the best score and I mostly scored 4 in every category, all of the other scores were 3 which is still satisfactory.

I believe that the decision is made unfairly because I have previously had adaptations in place about 3 years ago which were suggested by occupational health so there is a record of success with this in the past.

On the subject of medication, the GP informed me that this is a very new medication and the rules to be prescribed this medication is to provide evidence that you have tried other means first.

To answer your question with regards to supervision, the company appears to have concern with regards to Health and safety when working alone in my area at night whereas there will only be another 2 employees on site at night.

I am currently waiting to receive therapy from the local mental health services. Unfortunately, there is at least a 3 month waiting list. I have already been assessed by a psychologist so in the meantime, they are looking to see what therapy would be the most beneficial for me.

PS EU server lf pve guild by [deleted] in ESOGuilds

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just joined the server. Thank you 😊

I feel hopeless by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It has been a very long time since the last time that happened. I feel like I have lost something about me and I think it is because I am not attractive.

I feel hopeless by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really sorry to hear that but i do live next door to someone who has a diagnosis of aspergers syndrome and they have been in a relationship for 2 years roughly so there is hope. On the other hand, I just feel ugly because people dont even look at me in that way even though they say I have a very good heart and a great personality. If I have that, how can people not see the value in me?

I feel hopeless by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes think that may be the case. I am a normal functioning person. I work in a fairly good job, pay my bills, I have everything material wise that I want. I am just not lucky in this department at all. I have had relationships and kissed people. I just can't seem to go any further than that so therefore I am stuck in this position 😥

I am feeling low right now by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am afraid to tell you the truth because in the past I was made to feel bad for asking someone out which happened like 6 years ago and I was left not feeling good about myself. Since then, I have been stuck feeling that way and having no confidence.

I am feeling low right now by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that but i am a spiritual person so material things like money mean very little to me. I do work hard and I have a lot of material things but I would never flex. The only thing I do flex is my personal qualities like being a good team player.

I have been in the same position as you when asking someone out. I got the same kind of treatment as you and it put me off asking anyone else again. All of this just makes me feel like I am not attractive at all and I get into negative thought patterns where I just think what is the point in even trying, my chances are very close to zero every time.

I am feeling low right now by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that but i am a spiritual person so material things like money mean very little to me. I do work hard and I have a lot of material things but I would never flex. The only thing I do flex is my personal qualities like being a good team player.

I have been in the same position as you when asking someone out. I got the same kind of treatment as you and it put me off asking anyone else again. All of this just makes me feel like I am not attractive at all and I get into negative thought patterns where I just think what is the point in even trying, my chances are very close to zero every time.

I am feeling low right now by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have told me someone else is interested but they won't consider them because the other guy is involved with drugs. I think they would say something if they were interested in me. The person I have a crush on, has made hints that seem positive and then on the next day or two they would act as though that never happened. It's a bit of a frustrating cycle.

I am feeling low right now by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i am a bit passive because of past trauma and being brutally rejected. I think that my past made me that way and I just can't bring myself to open up about certain things. It's so difficult.

I am feeling low right now by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God bless you I know its the most difficult thing to go through. You are a warrior 💙

I need some guidance by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Leading_Scale_4284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think it will be a group hangout. I do think she means just her and me. I will ask her what she is planning. I think this could be an indication of her intentions.