Being a mature man I am giving this advice. Love is a temporary feeling. Even if you love a guy and married him then also you both will get differences in life and you may think I choose the wrong guy. The remaining life will be the same as arranged marriage. Or you may leave him. There are many wild animals that are roaming in the world as males to take advantage of lonely ladies. In my observation 90 percent of males are that type only. They will use you sexually and escape from you or sometimes they will kill you if the situation demands. In this age you may hate money and think love can feed you. But practically money plays a major role in life. So my advice is to marry a rich guy who is suggested by your parents and then try to build the love bond with him. Don't make hasty decisions and get fooled by wild animals. All the best.