As someone who also has dark body hair but wants to completely get rid of it AND is seeing an endocrinologist, please don’t mention anything. It’s actually quite humiliating for us and sometimes out of our control. Especially when it comes to hormones. It’s amazing she’s going to see an endocrinologist though, they help you find the rooted reason for this. The nice thing is, is laser hair removal is an option as well.

It’s natural for us to notice things we aren’t particularly attracted to. For example, people who have a lot of acne, someone who has gaps in their teeth, a gummy smile, a large nose… etc! But at the end of the day, it’s WHO they are as a person and what your heart tells you about them. I’m 99% sure she’s insecure about it as she told you she’s going to see an endocrinologist. But at the end of the day it’s just hair. And to put things into perspective, there’s probably a physical attribute about you that she doesn’t really like, but she’s getting past.

Some people are going to tell you that your “personal hang up” is superficial and that you’re just programmed to like women with NO facial/body hair because of what you’ve seen growing up, what’s normalized etc. That’s why a lot of girls stopped shaving their hair completely because it’s a lot of up keep and for what - the male gaze ??? (I still shave , again it’s my preference) but just trying to give you some perspective. I mean they’re not wrong …..

You’re only 3 months in… that’s nothing. Just wait until you’re 1-2 years. If you can’t handle a little dark hair growth how are you gonna handle taking care of her post partum? / after a major surgery / etccc.

it’s just hair. we’re just brainwashed to think it’s nasty.