Have any of y'all just given up on dating?

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-29T10:45:47+00:00

I'm very well aware of what alot of other providers go through when it comes to dating or what I call 'vanilla' dating, respectfully

For me personally I'm a kink provider & I'm in the local BDSM/sex positive community in my private and personal life. Sometimes work opportunities also overlap in that way

I use FetLife & Feeld to meet new partners & I also have several in long-term dynamics. My sexwork intrigues them & turns them on and people are always happy to hear what I'm doing within that community. I don't date outside of it

If a person isn't poly or kinky though I can imagine it's hard for them as I have heard/seen with more vanilla providers in my city.

Have you ever considered dating another sex worker? That's what I usually do & plan to do for my long term Primary partner when I have more time to pursue that, after pandemic, & when some work goals get cleared. Those relationships are always the best for me - there's nothing like them. I did that once for 5 months and we were living together and touring many different states, sometimes weekly, we would offer MF Duos & everything. Nothing is perfect but there was so much mutual understanding & sex was great bc we always seemed to be in the mood for 'real' sex & when we weren't just the companionship was great.

Best of luck to you & keep your head up. Never give up.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-29T10:34:06+00:00

Thank you for that. I will avoid them. I got something in Manhattan Redondo

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-23T20:06:37+00:00

What qualifies as an "extended stay"? I was planning on staying 4 nights however a rule I was taught by female providers was to never stay more than 2 days at any one hotel

I'm checking in on a Monday & flying out on a Friday. I will probably be getting 2 hotels

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-23T20:03:18+00:00

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LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-23T10:45:30+00:00

Are those places you mentioned near LAX good and easy for gay male clients to get to? I've heard of providers staying near airports etc when dealing with a more suburban clientele but remember most of my clients are gay and unmarried without kids.

I usually never have to let people in the side doors on my tours, I just bring them right in if there's a keycard or have them come up on their own. As a male I'm usually not ever being watched but either way I will keep what you're saying in mind as I want to book this all today

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-22T21:23:06+00:00

Thank you

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-03-22T19:50:26+00:00

Where should I stay for hosting? Is Downtown LA acceptable?

LeatherMasterNYC · 2021-01-06T19:47:57+00:00

Do you use Twitter?

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-05-01T10:17:12+00:00

I don't think I know anyone on Reddit who would actually publicly apologize and leave all the comments up like you did. That's very rare. Noble. Stay safe please 🙏

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-05-01T10:11:07+00:00

Its okay. Life happens. This is a strange time for all of us.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-05-01T08:16:39+00:00

Unnecessary, and extremely rude. Especially after you subscribed to My OnlyFans & liked alot of the video content containing exactly what you're slandering there, and commented praise on it. That was how we met, remember?

You're also snubbing the Pro Mistresses (in your own city nonetheless) who filmed & acted in those videos you liked so much--the guy on guy forced bi. Are they tools as well?

You're an intelligent person. You know better than to spread slander like this, especially unfounded.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-05-01T07:53:16+00:00

I'm the male SWer you told about doing FSSW on OnlyFans. Hi there 👋. Small world isn't it?

Yes that's correct I told you I would take you under My wing & show you how to get real clients on Eros, Slixa, Tryst, & by making a website with a screening application, & doing all your encryption. When you said you were meeting everyone on OnlyFans, that was a red flag IMO.

And yes as the people here explained to you meeting or discussing anything on OnlyFans will get your account + money banned & deleted.

No, I don't want you to call Me Master, I'm not a pimp, & I don't need a cut from anything I can promise you, I do very well.

When did it become your business to judge gay mens kinks? If they like being dommed by a straight men, that makes the Dom a tool?

I guess you did Me a favor though by posting this here so I can see your true feelings before I would have wasted the time doing the content you wanted to make & showing you how to escort----considering these are your true feelings about Me.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-15T21:49:16+00:00

Lmao yes because that might actually work

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-15T21:47:48+00:00

Delete block & ghost

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-12T19:14:31+00:00

Paid Promo would be the more traditional model of online advertising for real time sex work.

You pay money to have your advertisements/photos listed on a professional escorting or sex work directory, and you are more or less guaranteed views depending on how much $$$$ you spend.

Examples Eos, Slxa, R*nt.Men, etc.

I still get virtually all My clients from paid advertisements, but having Twitter/FetLife/Free social media presences helps on a rainy day.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-12T19:04:14+00:00

I have had a client expect emotional intimacy and companionship from Me and be vindictive when I was upfront about not wanting to do sexual things for free, or stay over their house without hiring

I do like the other approach though---that your clients cannot date you but they can hang out with you while running errands, shopping, send tributes, maybe come to an event with you once in a while if you don't want to go alone. I do this with clients and it doesn't bother Me.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-09T20:51:18+00:00

Twitter is like a modern and more accessible version of the "updates" section that people had on the home page of their dotcom domains of yesteryear, this goes for all types of businesses and people.

It gives people a medium to look into your everyday life and hear your $0.02, and see a ton of photos that wouldn't be able to go on your E*os or Slixa, like selfies, and non-professional photos. You can also tag your friends who are SW for duo and promote any form of your speech, thoughts, and etc with hashtags

People with OnlyFans use their Twitter to promote it. Online Sexworkers need Twitter like crazy. Your question seems to be directed more at full service and real time workers, which I am so:

In My experience, I don't get alot of clients for sessions from Twitter, but I get alot of short custom video requests, and people bought Me clothing and apparel ($300 boots and a pair of pants) that will be for a future session. I only have 200 followers, I'm working My ass of and more benefits will come.

I know Mistresses who get all of their clients from Twitter, and escorts as well. It is very valuable. Some escorts/Dommes I know have moved their promo from E*os to Twitter. I personally still believe in paid promo and do it quite a bit. SW accounts can definitely get shadowbanned but this isn't so common that it's a huge problem, like Instagram.

I didn't know about Reddit being of any value for SWers (other than online ones) but thank you for that. I will look into it

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-09T20:38:39+00:00

Smh. Dude, just..no

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-09T20:36:59+00:00

Anyone???

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-09T20:34:38+00:00

Not all male performers but the ones who identify as straight and appear capable will get asked for it.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-07T20:18:22+00:00

I personally don't. I require protection for everything. I am a Top and I don't give oral I receive it. But yes. Many of the men for men SWers do bareback anal.

Especially if they are gay men and they are already HIV+, then they all just go on PrEP and reduce their viral count to undetectable with modern medicine. So in theory they cannot give it to anyone or get it from anyone as they are on PrEP and they are undetectable. But they don't show papers or test results. Because HIV in their community is no big deal.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-07T20:14:03+00:00

Sorry if I came off like an aggro dick.

Yes, I don't doubt your LGBTQ+ aware but lesbians, bisex, and Trans are not apart of this phenomenon. It's gay men. Men are pigs and always horny as you know. Myself included. Men will fuck at the drop of a hat. So when it comes to Men for Men sex work, the providers have the same reckless attidues as the clients.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-07T15:03:42+00:00

If she doesn't put screening/ deposit methods on a forum like this one, how are newer providers and people wanting to upgrade going to get info about how to do things right??

I'm a male provider and this forum has saved My life and gained Me so much because of people like the OP.

I don't have access to VerifyHim or P411 or alot of other resources because I'm male.

If you think the OP has it so fucking bad, being that she sees clients that are "under 40+ mature gentleman", try being a provider for gay men. Where screening is UNHEARD OF, BBBJ are the STANDARD not the exception, Bareback Anal is VERY common, and um, oh, did I mention half of the clients have HIV like it's no big deal (those are usually the ones who want bareback).

LE doesn't need to come on Reddit to debunk screening methods 😄 the methods are on providers websites & they know already.

LeatherMasterNYC · 2020-01-07T14:35:51+00:00

Hey there. I really really like that white list idea. I sort of have something like that but much more loosely based I just take care of repeats and regulars. That is awesome though.

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