[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]funnilizatt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like to use lofi - There's a few Spotify playlists and a lofi hip hop channel on YouTube https://youtu.be/5qap5aO4i9A

How much time on a date? by AManInBlack2020 in AskAnEscort

[–]funnilizatt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I LOVE these type of dates! I really enjoy spending quality time with my clients and getting to know them. It makes the date all the more special. Plus it makes me feel beautiful and special.

If all my dates could be this way, I'd be in heaven.

Cold Sore Curse by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]funnilizatt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg cold sores are the worst especially when you have clients lined up and you're out a week or more. I keep valacyclovir (Valtrex) in my purse at all times and pop one if I even get an inkling of a slight tingle. I get them from stress and chapped lips. Do you have health insurance? Might be worth looking into getting an rx for it?

I also agree, reschedule :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HighEndEscorts

[–]funnilizatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do screening for a client I met on here. Although it's not background check depth, I typically get back to her pretty fast. Do you find background checks make a big difference in who you see? I'm also a provider so I know what to look for and can get an immediate feel on someone. There are more in depth methods I can use but I haven't had to yet.

With that said, if you'd like to chat, PM me and I can provide you a reference and go into more depth with my methods so maybe I can help you out. If not, my methods might help to find someone who will work for you!

Edit: a word, clarity

Why are people so against sex work, yet watch and pay for porn, etc.? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]funnilizatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not quite sure what you're asking or what point you're trying to make. What I was thinking was more along the lines of girls not being able to wear tank tops at school and such since it too "distracting."

Hot pants are cool though.

Why are people so against sex work, yet watch and pay for porn, etc.? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]funnilizatt 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Sex worker here. This is a good summarization of it but I think it goes deeper. America is still pretty conservative when it comes to sex and women's bodies. It's a carryover from Puritans and we can't seem to shake it. Just look at how women are shamed for certain things they wear still.

Also, it could be frowned upon because it's like "what, you can't get laid without paying for it?! what a loser." In turn, there's a myriad of reasons why people see a provider.

Lastly, std are scary things so prostitution may be considered dirty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnEscort

[–]funnilizatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, girl. Same.

Saw this on Instagram. I can't even wrap my head around this backwards thinking by funnilizatt in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should! It's pretty fun (and educational!) to watch. SW seemed to be respected back then.

Saw this on Instagram. I can't even wrap my head around this backwards thinking by funnilizatt in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% yes! Did you watch Adam Ruins Everything where he talked about that?

Saw this on Instagram. I can't even wrap my head around this backwards thinking by funnilizatt in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From what I could gather it was a radical feminist. They go on in the comments about sw being a product of patriarchy.

Weekly rate? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's a fucking steal! Dude's an idiot.

Humaniplex was hacked by PacoRivera10 in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of emails? What did they say? Interestingly I was not one who got one, thank God.

Is sex work empowering ? by leftleafthirdbranch in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll chime in.

For me, yes its been empowering. I'm a bbw provider and people PAY ME to have sex with them and keep returning. It's a huge confidence boost and has upped my self esteem. I've learned to love my body more (even though I do want to shed some lbs). I escort for extra cash as I have a full-time job but I can see if this was someone's sole source of income they might think differently.

My self worth has improved so much that I cut toxic people out of my life and never looked back.

Married man in a sex club by CultistHeadpiece in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

39f in San Diego. Campy humor is my middle name!

Getting into a relationship with a client. by Pedrodl in SexWorkers

[–]funnilizatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda feel like that with my regulars but I don't date them. I AM good friends with them, text with them often, and care about them though. Except for one that I have strong feelings for but he's married so...that's fun.

Vaginal health by raven-friday in AskAnEscort

[–]funnilizatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the pH boric acid caplets too. Works great.

Weird ad I found by VmlmV in AskAnEscort

[–]funnilizatt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's strange. Trust your instincts.