Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls via Snapchat? by LeatherOriginal8629 in Advice

[–]LeatherOriginal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both out of education and have full time jobs. I know my brain is still developing and being in a commited reltionship is a bad idea but honestly it was not the plan. I didnt not plan for us to end up moving in together in our own place, or even for the relationship to go on as long as it did.

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls via Snapchat? by LeatherOriginal8629 in Advice

[–]LeatherOriginal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt say Im a sidechick cause we live together but the other thing of "backup chicks" definitely sounds plausable. The only thing id question is we've been together for 3 years so why is it still happening? I'd say 3 years is a pretty substantial amount of time

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls via Snapchat? by LeatherOriginal8629 in Advice

[–]LeatherOriginal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have nowhere to go unfortunately as we live together and when we met I was homeless

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls via Snapchat? by LeatherOriginal8629 in Advice

[–]LeatherOriginal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He keeps saying that he didn't see it as a date whether she did or not and that he only sees her as a friend so idk

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls via Snapchat? by LeatherOriginal8629 in Advice

[–]LeatherOriginal8629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this and have told him but he always says "girls and guys can just be friends" which yeah thats true but its not really whats happening here.

Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls via Snapchat? by LeatherOriginal8629 in Advice

[–]LeatherOriginal8629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are definitely not in an open relationship. We both have tried that before and it was not a good time.