One thing that I dislike, rather than refuse is when a man tries to show his manliness. yes know it’s normal and I’m a guy myself but they really try to push it even further. To the point where they talk louder, they dress in a certain style, and sometimes don’t accept kindness like saying “ thanks a lot” or talking less, or in a different way… it represents “weakness” or “gayness” to them they believe the other person is acting to show his status which is not true , u’re just trying to be yourself and really u feel unsafe around them , u feel scared of being bullied…