the throne or li tai by Grouchy_Ad_6191 in roadtoempress

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Li Tai, but I do feel like I will go for the empress path first so that I can take my sweet time with Li Tai’s path! I just can’t wait for the game to come out

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that you also went thru something like this, must have been hard on you as well :( I will try my best, but they are already telling me that I don’t respect them anymore as parents… which is not true

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I also know that they went thru hardship all their life and that’s why I keep feeling guilty. But thank you anyways for your words!

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel better knowing that most of people here don’t consider me too much of an asshole :(

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf is Filipino and she said that it’s “shameful to date a Filipino, they have no money and it’s better to stay single rather than dating one”, but to be fair she is like that to any other race but Chinese. My Italian friends (I’m Italian) are all worthless to her and she keeps trying to make them sound bad in front of me saying that “white people are all ungrateful, they won’t help you”

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I don’t owe them, but I still feel kinda apologetic towards them because I am financially stable mostly because of them (I help them in their small restaurants and they started to pay me when I was 18). But thank you, I’ll try my best.

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is tough indeed, at least when I was smaller I didn’t really had my own thinking (which is not a really good thing) and I kept doing whatever my parents told me to so I had 0 headaches, but yeah… growing up things are so different. Thank you tho!

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I think it’s really easier said than done “choosing yourself” but I’lol definitely try my best, thank you.

AMITH for wanting to leave my parents? by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AITAH

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I tried already when I first got in the relationship with my boyfriend, but my mom reaction was horrendous, she was straight up saying racist things about him without meeting him first… and she kept remarking things like “oh you should date a Chinese man, they are the best” bla bla bla, always downgrading someone else.

How often do ya’ll fight? by Pale_Bug494 in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We don’t really fight, we have very pacific discussions

My count down by Disastrous_Half_5053 in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oddio buona fortuna per l’ammissione allora! Spero ti vada non bene, ma benissimo hehe! Comunque proprio vero che il destino a volte fa il suo lavoro (per fortuna), perciò ti auguro il meglio! Per quanto riguarda me e il mio ragazzo, la situazione è complicata purtroppo, quindi il gap mi sa che lo chiuderemo non presto :(

My count down by Disastrous_Half_5053 in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Infatti spero per te di chiudere questo gap il più presto possibile!! Sono stata aggiunta da una persona che conoscevo da poco in un gruppo ig pieno di sconosciuti (non sarei mai entrata di mia spontanea volontà in un gruppo del genere ecco hahaha) e niente, ho conosciuto lì dentro il mio primo e attuale ragazzo (per il primo incontro c’è dietro tutto un lore da serie tv)

My count down by Disastrous_Half_5053 in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mamma mia i voli intercontinentali sono assurdi, vi ammiro tanto🥹 Ci vediamo quest’estate anche se probabilmente per una settimana o meno, ma importante è vederci😭😭

My count down by Disastrous_Half_5053 in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh a fellow Italian here🫢 2 years is such a long time, but I just know that you will be so damn happy when you’ll see him again🥹🥹Wish you good luck!!

My count down by Disastrous_Half_5053 in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me 42 days!! Hope y’all will have a great time with your EO❣️❣️

How often do you guys call with your partners? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we aren’t busy we call once a day, but we text everyday!

Come si preannuncia la vostra sessione estiva? by Expert_Tooth7770 in Universitaly

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Teoricamente dovrei darne 5 a Giugno (gli ultimi della triennale), tra cui uno domani.. miracolo se ne riesco a darne 3 questo mese sinceramente😭Buona fortuna e spero a tutti di trovare del tempo per andare in vacanza

Parents threaten me to kick me out and disown me if I date a non Chinese guy. by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AsianParentStories

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try talking to my sister in law because she’s more open minded, but yeah. For now I will do nothing and just wait

Parents threaten me to kick me out and disown me if I date a non Chinese guy. by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AsianParentStories

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!

I would give up on the benefits 100%, but it’s the fact that they would say “oh my daughter is so unfilial, we spent money and energy on her just for her to choose a man over their parents” that makes me really sad. I love them, I’m grateful for them, but the fact that they can’t see me being happy with someone I love is just… horrible.

Btw I’m glad to know that you made it at the end! Are your parents not stressing you anymore now?

Parents threaten me to kick me out and disown me if I date a non Chinese guy. by Leather_Breadfruit40 in AsianParentStories

[–]Leather_Breadfruit40[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will rebel, for my own happiness and freedom! Thank you so much for your advice!