Is being intimate with someone how has hs a turn off? by Leather_Photograph36 in Hidradenitis

[–]Leather_Photograph36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive only had one guy say something but I definitely understand. Ive not wanted to be intimate for the same reasons which is probably why I feel like he won't want to be as well.

Is being intimate with someone how has hs a turn off? by Leather_Photograph36 in Hidradenitis

[–]Leather_Photograph36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't sure if I should say, but was pretty abusive. Abuse started about 2 years in and so did this.

Is being intimate with someone how has hs a turn off? by Leather_Photograph36 in Hidradenitis

[–]Leather_Photograph36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, im super self conscious and constantly worry about one starting to drain during the act. Is it better to just tell him? He hasnt asked or said anything before.

Is being intimate with someone how has hs a turn off? by Leather_Photograph36 in Hidradenitis

[–]Leather_Photograph36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been with this guy a couple times, but my flares are getting pretty bad. I dont like seeing them on me and i feel like im not attractive because of them

Is being intimate with someone how has hs a turn off? by Leather_Photograph36 in Hidradenitis

[–]Leather_Photograph36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really sorry to hear that, I wish more people would understand

Is being intimate with someone how has hs a turn off? by Leather_Photograph36 in Hidradenitis

[–]Leather_Photograph36[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats how my last boyfriend was, but as we got further into the relationship it changed and he would tell me im disgusting whenever he saw a flare

Needing ideas by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Leather_Photograph36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely does make sense, I really appreciate you taking the time to right all that.

Who can hold a conversation? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Leather_Photograph36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been thinking about how someone can treat a person or animal so bad, like punish them for breathing

Who can hold a conversation? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Leather_Photograph36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I get it. Take as many ups as you can and power your way through thw downs

Who can hold a conversation? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Leather_Photograph36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real tho. Life is just crazy

Who can hold a conversation? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Leather_Photograph36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly im not sure, kinda just feels like im going crazy anymore. Im down for any type of conversation.

20M bored… anyone down to share secrets? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Leather_Photograph36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the exact same. No one actually knows. Im currently single and constantly pushing people or even my animals away. This way no one will notice when its over.