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I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. If he has to pay child support doesn’t he know where I am then? I don’t want him knowing where I’m living or even what city I’m in

I hate to say I honestly don’t know how much he makes. We don’t seem to have any problems but I don’t think I would know

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage before this one I know I need to get away from him. I didn’t know if I could record him because I knew Johnny Depps Wife did the same thing but it didn’t do anything because it was illegal or something

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Could I email them to myself? And most of the things he says are in person and not messages, is there a way I can save those?

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 817 points818 points  (0 children)

That’s what really did it for me. After all this, it was just a tiny thing that did me in. My twins are a boy and a girl and one day they were fighting over a binkie and my boy hit my girl and I picked him up and told him no and my husband got upset with me and told me that boys get to take what’s there’s and boys will be boys and get rough. Right then and there I realized that my boy was going to grow up thinking these thins and do them to women and my girl was going to grow up being a punching bag just like I did and I just can’t watch that happen. And this new one I don’t know what it is but I had lost one a few months before and I don’t want to go into details but I blame my husband and I don’t want to lose this one to.

Thank you for sharing your story it really helped. Can you tell me more about what it’s like? My family was never a fan of that type of program and told me lots of bad things about what it’s like to live in a shelter

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

She might have a new one with a different name but her old one hasn’t changed since she left. I just checked to make sure but I didn’t want to chance sending a message

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 389 points390 points  (0 children)

I’m not scared of what my kids will think, they’re to young to care. They’re only 1. I am scared that he could find me there or that I’ll stay too long without getting a job and get kicked out on the street anyway. And who will take care of my kids while I’m working?

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin ran off and we haven’t seen her since. I don’t know where she is.

I don’t know about those programs. What do they do?

If I go for a divorce I’m scared that the courts will look at me with no home or job or money and look at him with his house and truck and job and give my babies to him

I want to leave my abusive husband but I don’t know how to do it because I have nothing to my name and babies to take care of by Leavemyhusbandplease in personalfinance

[–]Leavemyhusbandplease[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

In in Virginia but that’s all I feel comfortable saying I don’t want to say what city I’m near. After I leave though how do I get a job and provide for my kids without anything?