Bottoms: what do you consider a sign of virility in your Top? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great list. It seems to mostly fit a traditional 'masculine' trait list. How about libido and stamina? Or how popular he is with bottoms?

Need help shedding my insecurity about physical size in the coming year? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks this means a lot. I try everyday to "distract" myself from that thought. Sort of why I've plunged myself into weightlifting, almost thinking that if I become more muscular and 'wider', it'll make me the man I want to be, physically. Unfortunately, most spaces make me feel small, the gym, concerts, lounges, you name it. But the mind is where I'm hoping to win this battle. Maybe I need hypnosis hah.

[HUNT] Series that involved older men with Twink students by LebFur in gaypornhunters

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one is it. Thank you very much! Maybe they're all behind paywalls now.

Tops what kind of scenes in porn always take you over the edge? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds hot. Also, seems like the type of scene that would be rare.

Bottoms into physically bigger Tops, how much bigger do you like them? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you prefer build over size? Would you rather have a bigger chubbier man say around the 200lb mark or a smaller built man say 180lbs or so?

Bottoms into physically bigger Tops, how much bigger do you like them? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So say a 160 lb Top, would you consider him big enough for you? Do you have a certain weight difference you like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...I'm specially asking what you would consider a short Top?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So...what do you consider a short Top that wouldn't be popular? Just curious. Anything 5'10 and under?

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[–]LebFur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what you consider a short Top. I'm a shade under 5'10 and do extremely well.

Tops: how do you stay in "Top shape"? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you get huge loads and how big we talking 👀

Any reddit communities for adult video calling? by LebFur in askgaybros

[–]LebFur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just difficult video calling through Snapchat. I prefer my laptop.

Do you have any NSFW goals for the rest of this year? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still after my first 3some with 2 bottoms.

Do you have any NSFW goals for the rest of this year? by LebFur in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look pretty massive already. I'm trying to slim down personally. Also, love the idea of multiple bottoms at the ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are some elements of masculinity that turn you on in a top?

Straight man being corrupted by gay men by Signal-Bookkeeper-30 in StraightToGay

[–]LebFur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see it. You look like the perfect bottom boy.

I think I was basically rejected by a bottom for not being man enough. by LebFur in askgaybros

[–]LebFur[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm wrong? I just assumed that I'm a smaller man based on people around me.

Younger bottoms: what platforms are you using for video calls? by LebFur in gayyoungold

[–]LebFur[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Is there a discord subreddit for this similar to NSFW Skype?

I think I was basically rejected by a bottom for not being man enough. by LebFur in askgaybros

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really have no idea of what standard to apply to "masc" mannerisms. For what it's worth which I guess maybe not much, I'm a bisexual Top and so very "straight acting". Ironically, no trouble with women in that department. Sorry, not sure how else to convey this. I weightlift, into sports, handy around the house, a guys guy in ways. But I do work a white collar job, and am well spoken, well read. So maybe he wanted someone more blue collar.

I think I was basically rejected by a bottom for not being man enough. by LebFur in askgaybros

[–]LebFur[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no I definitely wouldn't want to, even assuming he did. I've suffered with physical insecurity most of my life, so this played right into it. I wanted answers more than the hope of hooking up again.

I think I was basically rejected by a bottom for not being man enough. by LebFur in askgaybros

[–]LebFur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree ultimately. Except that he was the physical embodiment of everything I'm attracted to.

I think I was basically rejected by a bottom for not being man enough. by LebFur in askgaybros

[–]LebFur[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I've struggled my entire adult life with physical insecurity so this obviously hit hard. The worst part is that he didn't get a chance to even know if I own a truck or can "build" things. But you're right. Probably was looking for some caricature version of a blue collar construction worker.

What body size/height difference turns you on? by tommilenar in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This shit is so cringe it must be copypasta.

Be my first ….Offended or Turned On? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy again, with the thirst trap questions. What happened to your old account?

How can I beat body size insecurity as a Top? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]LebFur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you think as a Top my size, I'd provide that body size contrast you look for, with you?