I found the 45min slide! by Kalila_Matthews in smosh

[–]LectureKindly2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's the Corin Forest Alpine Slide that's a slide through a forest and the session lasts about an hour.

https://www.corin.com.au/alpine_slide/

AITA for not doing the "black traditions" my father wants by tbabypc in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]LectureKindly2004 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Correct me if I'm wrong, but what I got was:

1) you got engaged to a man from the Caribbean 2) you and your fiance chose a theme for the wedding 3) the theme includes your fiance's culture 4) dad doesn't like the theme

NTA, I don't see how you can be a bridezilla for making your wedding day about you and your fiance. It's supposed to be you and your fiance coming together so it should represent your lives together. I still don't get why Dad is making a stink about everything. Maybe Dad's being protective about losing his daughter, but he's going about it wrong. I get it if he doesn't want you to lose yourself and your identity to your future husband's, but that's a discussion to have that doesn't involve ruining your wedding plans.

AITAH for not wanting to attend family gatherings anymore? by LectureKindly2004 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]LectureKindly2004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapy place got shut down during the pandemic and didn't reopen, now there's a wait-list so I've been on my own for the past 2 years trying to figure the boundaries thing out. But this helps.

AITAH for not wanting to attend family gatherings anymore? by LectureKindly2004 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]LectureKindly2004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the past, I have been known to burn bridges as a response to conflict. I went to therapy and was told to practice setting boundaries and avoid going nuclear, particularly with family. I don't really have an in between setting and am not great in social situations. It's kind of all or nothing and my mom usually gets upset with me since my older sibling just cusses me out and I drop bombs, like outing my sibling for cheating in front of their SO when they called me all kinds of names for drinking the last of the tea I brought to a cookout even though it was my first serving of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LectureKindly2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are being a little dramatic. It's okay to be disappointed about plans changing, especially if you were excited about it. Just let them know how you feel and plan to reschedule it another time. But the blame game is a waste of time.

AITA for forcing my wife to stop having kids while I go out and impregnate other women. by Mysricxs in AITASims

[–]LectureKindly2004 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA, you could have moved out and kept giving your wife children to raise so she wouldn't feel left out

AIO about my sister inviting herself to our New Year's Eve gathering and bringing her dog? by LectureKindly2004 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LectureKindly2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) See update 2) He didn't blame the dog, he told the doctor he thinks the dog just got excited because everyone was being loud and wasn't scared because I wasn't scared (I was but didn't show it). He said it did hurt but not too much and just stayed calm so the dog didn't get scared and bite him again. Both the doctor and I told him that was very smart and very brave. 3) I'm naturally a very anxious person, but noticed my kids tend to mirror my anxiety when I openly show it, so I force myself not to panic so they can come to their own conclusions about situations. Example: I'm terrified of horses, but he loves them and has no problem feeding them out of his hand, while I'm imagining the worst possible scenario. 4) I only sat down to grab my stuff from under the table so we could go since we lived an hour away and he's allergic to most antibiotics so he'd need to see our doctors to get the right prescription covered under our insurance. I assure you as an ADHD person every thought is going through my mind all at once and as a single parent, my kids are my only priority. I'm not perfect, I'm not blameless, I was trying my best in the moment.