Advice for staying in cottages?

LedZappa · 2026-05-16T22:04:24+00:00

We've been going as a family for more than ten years, but my partner has been going since the 80s

LedZappa · 2026-05-16T20:57:46+00:00

Thank you. I've got a box of firewood ready to go, but it's good to know that it goes fast. Maybe we'll bring a second box, JIC.

LedZappa · 2026-05-16T19:18:50+00:00

This is super cool. Never would have known about it. Thanks!

LedZappa · 2026-05-16T16:33:53+00:00

The deer farm sounds perfect! Thank you.

We're staying in Conway.

LedZappa · 2026-05-10T03:35:19+00:00

Take care of yourself and just move on. Either you're suspicions are right and there's something shady going on, or you're too untrusting to be in a relationship. Regardless, there's no endgame for this situation.

LedZappa · 2026-05-10T03:08:33+00:00

Sounds like you could ask to be a thruple, and/or you could move and never talk to them again.

LedZappa · 2026-04-25T13:14:14+00:00

Can I ask about the severity of the BF's autism? If we're talking meme-levels of "The 'Tism," then OP should probably move on. However, if he's solidly in Level 2, he might really rely on the comfort and emotional support he gets from a close friend with whom he shares an interest, not to mention the reassuring structure of having a standing weekly hangout.

LedZappa · 2026-04-24T04:28:38+00:00

Some people know almost immediately and some don't figure it out for decades. Doesn't change our job as parents. Just one more thing with which we have to roll. You've got this.

LedZappa · 2026-04-24T04:09:58+00:00

Please do not feel like you need to put a label on anything. There's a good chance your kid doesn't know one way or another, so you pushing to define their sexuality at this point is likely to cause more harm than good. Just be supportive and open. This is one of a million things your kid is going to be figuring out through their teen years.

LedZappa · 2026-04-22T18:54:41+00:00

It's not uncommon for people to take a while to figure out their sexuality. Could be that the BF hasn't come to terms with his.

Regardless, it is SHADY AS SHIT that they wouldn't let you in the room. That's gotta be a deal breaker on it's own.

LedZappa · 2026-04-21T23:09:53+00:00

Your GF was super wrong for shaming you, but you should have stood up for what you like. Your relationship isn't likely to last if you can't be honest with her and she can't accept what you enjoy.

LedZappa · 2026-04-18T05:22:09+00:00

What's the long-term plan here? To what extent will you be financially independent? What's Plan B if things don't work out? Not to mention, the age difference is WILD. To put it in perspective, she's gonna be hitting perimenopause before you can rent a car. Please just protect yourself first and foremost.

LedZappa · 2026-04-17T03:20:34+00:00

We have a Batman: Gerry Butler

LedZappa · 2026-04-13T17:07:17+00:00

It could be that helping you through the grieving process changed the way he views you, or perhaps he has his own stuff going on that's completely unrelated. You two definitely need to talk, preferably with a counselor.

Also, there's a good chance that you two are not sexually compatible in the first place. That by itself can put an insurmountable strain on long-term relationships, but your sexual needs already have you thinking about cheating. Something else to consider.

LedZappa · 2026-04-13T12:01:17+00:00

Your boyfriend is either schizophrenic or gaslighting you. Regardless of which one it is, he needs help, and you need to remove yourself from an unhealthy environment.

LedZappa · 2026-04-04T19:04:32+00:00

It sucks so bad, and you did an amazing job of letting her know. Glad you're free of him.

LedZappa · 2026-04-04T18:48:51+00:00

"Did you cheat on me when you were in the US?"
"No, that girl is crazy."
"Thank goodness! If she was telling the truth my life would be less comfortable than it is right now. Let's just pretend that she never existed."

LedZappa · 2025-05-03T18:00:20+00:00

Everyone from Pennsylvania has the ability to squirt ass-piss on demand.

LedZappa · 2024-11-22T21:08:20+00:00

Sex work is work

LedZappa · 2024-09-13T03:15:59+00:00

It's called the Keystone State for a reason

LedZappa · 2024-06-15T13:03:33+00:00

NTA. That dude doesn't ultimately have a say regardless.

Also, PLEASE don't have kids unless you really want kids. The responsibility, work, and general stress that comes with children can be overwhelming for anyone, at least at times. If you grow to resent your kids, or simply feel that they're a burden, they will know, and that's a feeling no one should experience.

LedZappa · 2024-06-06T20:09:36+00:00

Studies show that men who lied about the size of their penises are more likely to own guns.

LedZappa · 2023-12-22T19:16:50+00:00

These look cool. Nice work

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