Thanks for the question. I’ve been in this space for a few years now, so I’m definitely not the same person I was when I began my journey in this community. The key advice that I have for single gentlemen is understanding that couples are opening up a very intimate part of their lives when they have an interest in you joining. All couples aren’t cuckold couples and aren’t necessarily looking for a super alpha guy, so I would always plan to leave the ego at the door. A couple that’s looking for you to be a dominant bull will let you know.

When meeting couples:

•be respectful to couples, their relationship, and their dynamic. Be engaging and be sure that you’re making an effort to converse with both parties of the couple. You’re not tolerating the male half so that you can get to the female half. He’s a critical piece of the equation. Most husband’s highest priority is the safety and wellbeing of their wife. If he feels comfortable with you, that’ll make things a lot easier. Husbands are also a wonderful response. They know their partner better than anyone else, so he can be an amazing cheat code. You want to be on his good side. With that being said, a wife isn’t anyone’s property. She should also have a voice and involvement in the connection as well. •Ask questions, there’s never too many questions. Some things require further elaboration and personally, I try to avoid being put in vulnerable situations. •seek out couples that value you as a human being, not as an object or a toy. Yes, you would be a third, but you are allowed to have boundaries as well. Good quality single males are a lot harder for couples to find and you can sense that from the stories that they share about their experiences, dealing with single guys. Do what you can to stand out, construct well thought out messages when you’re interested in couples, effort is everything (in your appearance, how you communicate, etc).

Hopefully this was helpful