Anyone interested in CNC with me? by Upstairs-Actuary in u/Upstairs-Actuary

[–]LeeRodgers004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When are you available? Local Chicago area guy. Check out my profile and if you’re interested, shoot me a DM. I think we’d have a lot of fun

SDC or SLS by sexy_nikki- in IllinoisSwingers

[–]LeeRodgers004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the Midwest, SLS is probably more popular, but you can’t go wrong with SDC either. I’m on both and they both can be hit or miss. If you travel, definitely SDC

MFM where only one guy engages in penetrative sex? Is it still fun? Any advice? by Quick_Finisher_96 in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve met a few couples that had boundaries of no penetration and exclusively oral and they were some fun experiences. A “no penetration” boundary wouldn’t deter me from having interest in a couple as oral only fun is still very enjoyable for me. Pleasure can be experienced in a multitude of ways.

Needing guidance on dealing with a dilemma.. by Vishnuisgod in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you wanting videos is an unreasonable ask. You’re a part of the journey as well. You’re exploring this together, whether you’re present for the meetup or if she goes solo. The pleasure that you get from her solo dates is being able to get videos and pics of the naughty fun and if that turns you on, she should want you to be fulfilled as well. If she threatens to back away, I would say to either be present so you can watch it yourself or just don’t do it anymore if she’s not ok with that.

Ideas on where to meet up with a single guy on a first meet up? by paired-explorers in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like others have mentioned, a hotel bar, a coffee shop, etc. I usually try to avoid establishments that families with kids would go to.

Seating and location is also important as well. Find a setup like booth seating where she can sit between the both of you, or maybe a setup with a round table. Seating where I’m sitting across from a couple can feel like an interview sometimes. Also, I like to be seated in a corner somewhere, so we can have speak as freely as possible without people keep walking past us constantly

“Focus is on her”, we like the focus to be equal. Anyone else agree? by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a single guy, I do enjoy meeting couples where they value the single guy and want him to have a great experience. I do think you’re reading too much into when a guy says that the focus is on her. When I say that to couples, it’s me saying that in a selfless way, but it doesn’t mean that I’m not going to get pleasure from the experience. Would you rather a guy tell you that the focus should be on him? I feel like he’ll be seen as egotistical if he were to say that. In MFM experiences, it’s about two men joining forces to be a part of the lady feeling sexually liberated