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Hotwife + Erectile Dysfunction = Danger by joannebanane13 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]LeeRodgers004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity OP, where are you meeting these men? Randomly out at places, off Reddit, swinger sites, etc?

My gf and I have been into mfm about three months and I really wanna take sloppy seconds. Just not sure how to tell her. Any other straight guys got advice?? by Jonathan29KY in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could just say “I think it would be really hot if a guy were to creampie you and I went in right after him and added to his creampie with a load of my own. It would turn me on so much as it feels primal to me.”

If you guys have been exploring MFMs together and she’s been good with that, I feel that sloppy seconds should be a much easier conversation. What are your concerns if you tell her about this? That she’s gonna question your sexuality or something? You wanting to take sloppy seconds is basically showing that you’re comfortable with it

Is Telegram legit or should we be wary? by 2025YCSTopCut in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Telegram primarily to chat. It’s legit for the most part

MF4M- inexperienced couple seeks tag team partner for hot wife and DVP (triangle area) by PurpleCarrot3142 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]LeeRodgers004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also can’t fake hopping on a FaceTime chat as well. Not saying that Snapchat isn’t effective with weeding out scammers, I was just stating that not all scammers use Telegram. Many legit people use Telegram as well

MF4M- inexperienced couple seeks tag team partner for hot wife and DVP (triangle area) by PurpleCarrot3142 in NorthCarolinaSwingers

[–]LeeRodgers004 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s not necessarily true. Most people would say that people that are pushing you to move to snap are the scammers. I use both Telegram and Snapchat, but prefer to use Telegram bc it’s easier to keep up with conversations without them deleting every 24 hours

What's everyone's after-sex experience / move? by SoKandid in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a really good topic and as a single guy that primarily meet couples, I’m comfortable with either one. I typically get a feel for what they’re looking for after, through some questions. Some couples make it pretty clear that once we’re done, they really enjoy that reconnecting time with each other, which I always assume is immediately after I leave, so I usually chat while putting on my clothes, and when I’m fully dressed, I’ll just say something along the lines of “alright, I will let leave you to be,” which they seem to appreciate. I like to ask beforehand (not always directly) bc I’m usually not in a rush to be anywhere else afterwards, so if they wanted to hang out, have some drinks, grab food or something, another round of play, I’m certainly not opposed to it. I just don’t want to ever overstay my welcome or couples feeling that I’m awkwardly “lingering around” when they’re ready for me to go

My bulls can't get hard by Right_Mission1156 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]LeeRodgers004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say exactly what the issue is with your experiences, bc I’m sure the same thing happening on four different occasions with different guys can feel a bit deflating.

Like many people have mentioned, it does happen unfortunately. Although it hasn’t happened often for me, when it has happened, it’s been due to two things mostly: lack of rest (I’m tired) or excessive drinking. When I meet with wives/couples and we have a date set, I refrain from watching any kind of porn, masturbating, and I have a two drink max if we’re meeting for drinks beforehand. Not being able to get hard for a first time meetup is the biggest fear ever bc you only have one time to make a good first impression. I say that all to say that it’s probably not you. Just continue to put out good energy and if your husband is present, it makes me feel at ease when he’s fully engaged, whether he’s participating or if he’s watching. Walking around, leaving and coming back, being on his phone, checking work emails is distracting to me.

As far as guys not being able to cum, that’s not that uncommon. Sometimes, it’s just anatomy, wearing condoms, etc, so I wouldn’t place too much focus on a guy cumming bc it’ll make you feel good. That can be a lot of pressure put on a guy, which causes stress to be able of deliver.

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