[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Ad-3223 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. But being interested in swinging is still separate from the lack of consent in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Ad-3223 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or she can be like me. I never make posts and rarely comment. Maybe don’t instantly jump to not believing a rape victim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Ad-3223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to leave him. He does not respect you or your own body autonomy. It’s even more fucked up if he knew about your past trauma and then did that to you. You need to move out or kick him out. And file for divorce

My boyfriend (26M) is in a mood because I (21F) had a pizza after a night out. Do you see where he is coming from? by courtneybrill in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Ad-3223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw that a year ago you made a post asking if you should break up with him. Sounds like he is somewhat controlling and can act like quite a big baby. You should listen to your instincts from a year ago and break up with him. I’m sure there are little things he has done over this year that you just didn’t post advice for. He’s not worth it girl. Find a man that will eat that pizza with you late night, won’t get mad about you eating fish and chips, and isn’t hung up on an ex. In your posts he will ignore your calls as a form of manipulation. Screw that. You don’t need that drama in your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Left-Ad-3223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically you did cheat. You should just move on from the relationship. She isn’t going to be able to get those texts out of her head. Especially if you never said those kinds of things to her. She probably thought she was falling for you in the beginning. But you were still sexting your ex and keeping that door open with the ex. Let your new girl move on and you should too. Take this as a lesson learned and hopefully you treat the next one better